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To take pebbles from the beach?

353 replies

DarylDixonsHair · 25/05/2020 15:02

Is it allowed? I'd like to put some borders around my flowers beds so need about 20 - 30 medium sized ones. I wouldn't take them all in one go, probably a handful at a time while dog walking.

Just wanted to check I'm not breaking the law/endangering the planet/taking the piss.

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Scoobygang7 · 11/11/2020 12:52

Hold on we bring half the fucking beach home with us. Sand everywhere, in theory sand is partially decayed and eroded shells and stones and glass. So I am stealing because it gets in everything.

upsetandang · 11/11/2020 13:04

at first I thought you were being unreasonable but then I thought harder

everyone does do it! Big fat companies steal the pebbles from natural places and sell them
they also steal peat from marshes and sell compost
they steal sand for the same reasons.
metal
chalk
salt
clay

take the pebbles if you're going to buy them anyway, that way you get the pebbles and dirty horrible companies don't get paid to destroy the planet this time.

fucking unbelievable.

if you can though, go to a couple of beaches and do it over a period of time, like don't hire a truck

Pumperthepumper · 11/11/2020 13:10

@OhhCarolina

Why is it different getting them from garden centres? Don't they themselves get them from beaches, the coastal eroding bastards?
No.
Pumperthepumper · 11/11/2020 13:15

You know how a couple of years ago everyone was super casual about balloon releases and helium and plastic straws and cotton buds and those lanterns that float in the sky with a wee light and flushing tampons and a million other tiny little things that fuck up the planet? And then public opinion changed to ‘actually, we can do without these things for the good of the planet’?

This is like those, only it seems people haven’t cottoned on yet. It’s a tiny little thing - leave stuff alone. Leave it alone. Your wants don’t trump the planet’s needs. That’s the bottom line. Leave it in peace.

The same way you teach your kids not to litter, not to take birds nests, not to disturb bees, not to stamp on snails - teach them about the importance of looking after the beaches. That’s it! So simple!

SoupDragon · 11/11/2020 13:16

at first I thought you were being unreasonable but then I thought harder

Did you think as far as the "it's illegal" bit?

anxiiousone · 11/11/2020 13:18

Where do the garden centres get beach pebbles from?!?! Confused

TheDowagerDuchess · 11/11/2020 13:19

Just joining the chorus saying it’s illegal!

picklemewalnuts · 11/11/2020 13:21

It's shellfish! Pure shellfish!

Pumperthepumper · 11/11/2020 13:22

@picklemewalnuts

It's shellfish! Pure shellfish!
😂😂😂😂
GoJoe2020 · 11/11/2020 13:26

ok, I'll be sure to turn myself in to the police, along with my 7 year old, for theft of shells from the beach last week. This is peak Mumsnet madness. Get a life

Get a grip. The police don't care, and no-one will prosecute you. But thats not the point, is it? Normal people don't do illegal, bad things, not because they are afraid of getting caught, but because they know they are wrong.
Now, you're too thick to understand why taking pebbles from beaches is wrong, clearly. Maybe ask your 7 year old to read up on it and explain it to you?

Butterer · 11/11/2020 13:26

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Selfisolation2020 · 11/11/2020 13:26

If it was left to my daughter, we would of had a seal Coming home with her shells

RunningFromInsanity · 11/11/2020 13:28

@hetanom

Not many people know this but most global deforestation is caused by dogs and children taking sticks home with them.
Grin
IhateBoswell · 11/11/2020 13:29

Thank you Pumperthepumper 🙏

DillonPanthersTexas · 11/11/2020 13:37

#prayforpebble

OhhCarolina · 11/11/2020 13:43

Garden centres create genetically modified pebbles in massive secret warehouses in Lincolnshire.

Aridane · 11/11/2020 13:44

@picklemewalnuts

It's shellfish! Pure shellfish!
You would have to have a heart of stone or granite like composure not to laugh at this
GoJoe2020 · 11/11/2020 13:56

Increased risk of flooding, irrepareable coastal erosion, and the destruction of natural resources.

SO funny.

Hmm
Tessiot · 11/11/2020 14:01

Can anybody tell me please, would Statute of Limitations apply here?

Just thinking about Stonehenge. Those bastard fucking druids. Destroying the Preseli Hills. Dragging those stones across the valleys, then just abandoning them in a heap on Salisbury Plain. Leaving broken chariot wheels in gateways on their way. Littering the forests with mead bottles and used goatskin condoms. You can even see Avebury from space.

As for Hadrian, well what a fuckwit he was. Didn't get planning consent did he? Just built a wall, higher than two metres, right across an AONB. Bastard.

Cleopatra.......selfish bitch....blah...blah....

DarylDixonsHair · 11/11/2020 14:04

Don't forget the pyramids. Pebble theft on a grand scale.

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hetanom · 11/11/2020 14:04

@GoJoe2020

Increased risk of flooding, irrepareable coastal erosion, and the destruction of natural resources.

SO funny.

Hmm

I think you're just overreacting a bit. Coastal erosion is a serious problem and costs us millions every year. The main human causes are climate change and rising sea levels (indirect but still a human cause really), coastal structures such as ports, jetties, etc. and reduced sand supply caused by inland human activities such as dams and other river structures. These absolutely are things we need to combat. Someone taking a bag of pebbles from the beach, or the odd dog-walker or child taking some driftwood or rocks, is not a major concern, in my humble opinion.
Pumperthepumper · 11/11/2020 14:04

@Tessiot

Can anybody tell me please, would Statute of Limitations apply here?

Just thinking about Stonehenge. Those bastard fucking druids. Destroying the Preseli Hills. Dragging those stones across the valleys, then just abandoning them in a heap on Salisbury Plain. Leaving broken chariot wheels in gateways on their way. Littering the forests with mead bottles and used goatskin condoms. You can even see Avebury from space.

As for Hadrian, well what a fuckwit he was. Didn't get planning consent did he? Just built a wall, higher than two metres, right across an AONB. Bastard.

Cleopatra.......selfish bitch....blah...blah....

Before we knew better, you mean? Or should we all just think fuck it and start making sculptures out of the polar ice caps?
Aridane · 11/11/2020 14:05

@Tessiot - no , the Statute of Limitations would not apply here (being a US job) but the Limitation Act might Wink

Though some crimes are so heinous (like pebble pilfering, stone stealing) that they should be no time limit on prosecution

duffeldaisy · 11/11/2020 14:08

Wow, this thread!
People have taken small mementos and interesting things since forever. At least modern people aren't hacking 5 tonne stones out of the ground and dragging them miles and miles away to balance on top of each other in a gigantic landmark of greed and destruction, eh?

Obviously don't go and take a load of stones from somewhere to pebble your driveway, but taking a few empty shells and a shiny pebble to remind you of a special holiday isn't going to add to coastal erosion, even if every single person in the country took one from their nearest beach.

It might be against the law, but it seems the pettiest, most ridiculous thing to argue over. Better to save anger for massive companies scooping up sackfuls of the stuff to sell to the same people you're telling off for enjoying the feel of a piece of driftwood in their hand on the rare occasion they can get to the seaside once a year.

SVRT19674 · 11/11/2020 14:08

Well I have five pebbles on display, three from Greece, 2 from my coastal birth town in Spain...oh!!!