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To not understand the outrage at Dominic Cummings?

999 replies

Wow123 · 25/05/2020 08:08

Please don’t flame me for this. I’m not posting this to be controversial. I am someone who always tries to see the good in people which has been to my detriment at time’s in the past so I’m very well aware that maybe I’m missing something here and being too kind when he possibly doesn’t deserve it.

My understanding is that Dominic Cummings is saying that he only returned to Durham on one occasion which was because he had fears about potentially being unable to look after his child if him and his wife both ended up too unwell with Covid. I can understand the logic in that.

I appreciate the government advice at that stage was to stay home but if he genuinely didn’t have anyone to help with his son, then I can understand his fears and that he was trying to put his child first as any parent would.

My understanding is that a matter of days after, the government did clarify that travelling in the event of needing support with children if you had caught covid was an exceptional circumstance and that travel in that instance was acceptable.

I personally live hundreds of miles from family and don’t have anyone I could ask for help in the local area was I to become unwell with Covid so this does resonate with me.

I understand that there were sightings of Dominic Cummings on other dates in Durham which indicate that he travelled back up there. If this is true, I definitely agree that he needs to be sacked, but at this stage, there is no proof of this.

Am I missing something here?

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MaxNormal · 25/05/2020 20:36

And he wasn't in the wrong, as he explained

Good of him to tell us all what to think.

hammeringinmyhead · 25/05/2020 20:37

It's quite easy to explain how he was in the wrong. Really, really easy.

MaxNormal · 25/05/2020 20:38

CoachBombay single mother in a tower block vs advisor to the PM? Of course different judgements apply.

CoachBombay · 25/05/2020 20:42

Max so us single mothers can flout rules and nobody will care, report us, care?

Cool I'm off to have a family BBQ! Thanks for the free pass.

Bathroom12345 · 25/05/2020 20:42

Sorry Max. They don’t! Are you seriously suggesting that the single mother can do what she wants numerous times a day?

FliesandPies · 25/05/2020 20:43

CoachBombay c'mon. If the story had been that Cummings or his wife had gone out more than once a day with their child it would have passed unnoticed.

Hoppityfrog20 · 25/05/2020 20:44

Yanbu. He’s clearly a cheeky f but seriously who the hell cares?! Probably all the remoaners out there and various others out to get him.

He’s not done any harm. Half the people I talk to have broken lockdown in some form or other and continue to do so in parks, sitting in massive groups clearly socialising with more than one member of another household.

I think it’s best people let the government get on with the task at hand instead of fussing over all this pathetic nonsense and creating more instability which is the last thing we need right now.

I’m sick of all this anti Tory bs...what we are facing here is unprecedented and it’s all well and good for each of you to say what the government should have done and what you would have done but the reality is you have absolutely no idea what you would have done in this situation. There’s no perfect way out of this, some of it is trial and error.

However as usual people love to focus on the problems rather than the solutions.

The media in this country is also a disgrace imo and I’ve been pretty sickened by it over the past few years.

CoachBombay · 25/05/2020 20:45

So some "rule breaking" are ok to do and some things not for Mr Cummings and family 🤔

merrymouse · 25/05/2020 20:46

So if everyone wants to get up in arms about rule breaking, then it's all or nothing.

Did she have Covid symptoms? Does she advise the government? Does she regularly confuse a family hatchback with an optician?

ZombieFan · 25/05/2020 20:46

You really have to wonder what other people would do with their children if they were incapacitated. I suppose they would just let them fend for themselves rather than allow family look after them.

hammeringinmyhead · 25/05/2020 20:46

I would not have driven 260 miles with a car full of coronavirus.

MaxNormal · 25/05/2020 20:47

Crack on with the Tory ring-licking then.

hammeringinmyhead · 25/05/2020 20:49

So some "rule breaking" are ok to do and some things not for Mr Cummings and family

It's not ok for anyone to go to a petrol station twice with coronavirus, no.

hammeringinmyhead · 25/05/2020 20:50

I suppose they would just let them fend for themselves rather than allow family look after them.

The family 2 streets away in London? Sure.

madroid · 25/05/2020 20:50

@CoachBombay A witch hunt is never necessary.

But holding public servants and elected officials to account is.

He has exposed the government as dishonest. During a pandemic. It's really not good is it.

Bathroom12345 · 25/05/2020 20:50

Hoppity. I agree. The press especially those around DC’s house were a complete disgrace to their profession.

SharonasCorona · 25/05/2020 20:50

I’m betting some of Cummings apologists here were the same Covigilantes telling everyone to stay home FFS.

hammeringinmyhead · 25/05/2020 20:51

@SharonasCorona Yeah, probably STAY THE FUCK HOME for emphasis.

thisenglishlife · 25/05/2020 20:52

He’s not done any harm
He could well have infected people.

I’m sick of all this anti Tory bs
It isn't, that isn't the reason people are angry. He has annoyed people across the political spectrum.

stairway · 25/05/2020 20:53

I work in healthcare and yes many of my colleagues who have children have come down with symptoms, I don’t know anyone who went halfway across the country in case they became incapacitated.

ZombieFan · 25/05/2020 20:53

Lets just move on, we have much more to worry about than the child care arrangements of some political adviser.

Alsohuman · 25/05/2020 20:54

Let’s not. We don’t.

hammeringinmyhead · 25/05/2020 20:54

You sound just like Boris when he didn't want to answer any more awkward questions.

chomalungma · 25/05/2020 20:54

This is gold though for comedians, talk shows and morning TV. No matter what happens. It all chips away.

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