To get waves of grief over not being able to have children?

[acceptancemuchneeded]

I'm having a shit day with this today. Not to be dramatic.

My life is great in many ways, I am happy in many ways.

But every few weeks I just have some deep sadness about it.

It’s always going to be there in one way or another . Like any loss

Much empathy

So sorry to hear this of course YANBU. I hope you take care of yourself and that you have a better day today, or soon.

I'm so sorry, I was originally told I would never be able to have children of my own. I was very very lucky I had them eventually via IVF but I remember the awful pain of infertility. So am really sorry you are going through this. Big hugs.

Your grief is valid, don't let anyone minimise it.