hiya ladies,
So basically my dd is 12, one of the youngest in her year but still fairly tall, pretty, and she is on the dance teams at her school. Unfortunately being on the dance team means that the majority of the slightly bitchy popular girls are all spending about 2 or so hours a week with her after school(dance rehersals) she is hanging out with one group of friends who she gets along really well with(they are not in dance) but I think there has been some sort of minor argument which is causing some rifts and some of the girls are sort of taking sides (its a group of 6) and because she doesn't want to be involved with that she has been eating lunch with the girls on the dance team who have apparently taken a shine to her. I know that is lovely and all but I know they will just drop her and then make us some mean rumour and gossip about her a few weeks later. I really dont want my dd to be involved in this group for other reasons, e.g. they are always having some sort on drama or in the head of pastoral's office. I know what i have said so far seems reasonable, but I just have a worry in the back of my mind that I only want her to not be with the "populars" is because I was not very well liked outside of my small group in high school, please tell me what you think????