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To think we don’t need a lockdown disclaimer for EVERYTHING?

69 replies

StillCoughingandLaughing · 20/05/2020 15:21

It’s driving me absolutely daft. We all know about lockdown. It’s impossible to avoid your life being affected or even dominated by lockdown. Yet on every MN thread or social media post, some po-faced Head Girl type HAS to ask ‘How on earth are you doing X and Y during lockdown?!’ or snidely say ‘I assume you will of course be following social distancing guidelines’.

Examples: a thread today about dating. ‘How are you dating during lockdown?!’ Surely it’s not too big a leap to think it doesn’t have to be physically dating at the moment? Another one recently about a woman’s behaviour at the gym. Any idiot could have worked out that the incident either happened before lockdown or the OP is in another country - but no, out come the lockdown police.

I posted on a Facebook group called Terrible Art in Charity Shops and was instantly asked how I’d taken the photograph during lockdown. Through the fucking window! What did they expect me to say, that I broke into Oxfam and rooted through the stock room? In our local group, I’ve seen people offering to give away items like children’s bikes that could easily be left in the front garden - the two parties would never have to meet. From some of the responses, you’d think they’d suggested coming over for an orgy.

Is there anyone who really thinks they’re being helpful by doing this? Or are they just showing what good little boys and girls they are, desperate to tell teacher if anyone is naughty? And if so, can we keep them indoors after lockdown is over?

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Shuttup · 21/05/2020 07:31

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JamieLeeCurtains · 21/05/2020 07:34

'When I was on my daily walk' was big on here for a while.

I thought it sounded really odd, like it was all Victorian and necessary or something, putting it on a par with 'daily bread' and 'daily ablutions' which are kind of necessary.

SecondaryBurnzzz · 21/05/2020 07:39

There must be an alternative to the word "unprecedented", it's really getting on my wick!

TreeTopTim · 21/05/2020 07:44

Agree with you and everyone else. We all know about social distancing, lockdown, shielding, daily exercise, we don't need it shoved down our throats.

Covidiot is one word I will be glad to never hear or read again.

DappledThings · 21/05/2020 07:49

I hate that every TV show has to include a "this programme was filmed before social distancing arrangements came into force"

I've only heard that once and it was really annoying. Are people really too thick to understand that and have been complaining?

ememem84 · 21/05/2020 07:54

Oh helloooooo!!!!

Where I am the competitive isolators are out in force. Basically if you even try to do anything which resembles having a good time or being happy during this you’re severely frowned upon.

I hate the phrase social distancing.

I hate people having to caveat that they’re doing everything “by the rules” I hate people feeling morally superior for wearing masks in their gardens.....(neighbour I’m looking at you...?!)

SecondaryBurnzzz · 21/05/2020 08:09

@Shuttup 🤣

SlothRunner · 21/05/2020 08:19

I also hate the word “covidiots” it makes me cringe

Zaphodsotherhead · 21/05/2020 08:22

I think the Head Girl effect is exactly why people are over using 'socially distanced walk'. If you were to say 'I was out for a walk with my mother/MIL/friend' then everyone wades in with 'you aren't supposed to go out with someone from outside your household - were you socially distancing?' If you say you went out for a 'socially distanced' walk with (whoever) it kind of takes the wind out of their sails before they begin.

Yellowbutterfly1 · 21/05/2020 08:30

I totally agree Zaphodsotherhead, it’s just such a shame that it’s come to this, that people are afraid of a backlash.

PuppyMonkey · 21/05/2020 08:32

Worse than the word “covidiots” is somebody using it on a MN thread and then other people coming along and posting: “OMG that’s hilarious! Covidiots? LOL, you’re so clever using that one. My sides.” Confused

I’ve realised this week I’ve got Covid Fatigue - I literally can’t be arsed watching the news or daily briefings any more. I’ve lost all faith.

BarkandCheese · 21/05/2020 08:32

Yep, I’m guilty of putting “socially distanced” before “walk” to head criticism off at the pass.

StillCoughingandLaughing · 21/05/2020 09:43

I've only heard that once and it was really annoying. Are people really too thick to understand that and have been complaining?

Apparently Eamomn Holmes and Ruth Langsford have had to explain more than once on air why it’s not breaking the rules for them to sit next to one another on the This Morning sofa 🙄🙄🙄

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RomaineCalm · 21/05/2020 09:59

There must be an alternative to the word "unprecedented", it's really getting on my wick!

@SecondaryBurnzzz I'm with you on that. I never want to hear it again.

Worse though was a manager at work who came out with "Never before have we been through such unprecedented times..." Hmm

StealthPolarBear · 21/05/2020 11:00

Still coughing, why isn't it against the rules? Do they live in the same household?

StealthPolarBear · 21/05/2020 11:49

I've just been out for a socially distanced walk with dd

StealthPolarBear · 21/05/2020 11:50

And just googled eaminn Holmes :)

SoupDragon · 21/05/2020 13:32

"Clap" is a word I don't want to hear again.

ememem84 · 21/05/2020 13:39

And the palarver over masks. Wear one. Don’t wear one. But don’t shame others for not.

Fuck you karen.

SoupDragon · 21/05/2020 13:47

Ugh. I loathe the attributing of an actual name to perceived type of person.

IDontDrinkTea · 21/05/2020 13:49

I don’t want to hear the phrase “key worker” ever again. It seems to preface everything. “I’ve been out to work... because I’m a key worker”. “Can I skip the ridiculously long queue at aldi please..: it’s because I’m a key worker”

I have no idea why it gives me such rage. It’s not jealousy as I am ‘a keyworker’ it just grinds my gears

BritWifeinUSA · 21/05/2020 14:05

I can’t hear yo hear “we’re all in this together”. Usually said by millionaire celebrities during every advert break on TV here. Yep, sure you’ve lost your job or your small business and can’t pay your rent anymore....

I like to listen to a particular BBC radio show on the Internet here. It’s a request show but lately it’s been almost unbearable with every single person requesting a song has to give their life story a out how they are working 23 hours a day “on the frontline”, keeping the nation fed/safe, etc and then spend their time off running a food bank and helping disabled neighbours and shopping for the entire elderly population of their county or something. I recently emailed a request for a favorite song of mine just to cheer me up and my request was read out but it sounded so “unworthy” amongst all the requests from various “heroes”. Pre-virus the whole show was just “please play xxx because it brings back happy memories” or “please play anything by xxx because they’re my favourite band of all time”.

And don’t get me started on those who see this as a competitive sport as to who has the most random medical conditions, who has the most shielding people in their family, whose lockdown is the worst. It also seems that every shielding person in the UK is on MN. If anyone mentions shielding on a thread, in no time at all hundreds of replies with “we are on the list too”. The government didn’t need to waste postage sending those letters, could have just posted the guidelines on here.

BarbaraofSeville · 21/05/2020 14:12

Apparently Eamomn Holmes and Ruth Langsford have had to explain more than once on air why it’s not breaking the rules for them to sit next to one another on the This Morning sofa

I assume that they're a couple? The same happened with Martin Lewis and Lara Lewington when they appeared on some TV programme together and they received tweets etc telling them off for standing too close to each other even though it's fairly well known that they're married to each other.

But it's funny how social distancing is so ingrained now that anything 'normal' on TV looks really odd - unrelated people in the same car or sitting or standing close to each other etc.

CloudPop · 21/05/2020 14:16

I hate seeing the term “daily exercise” in captions too. Just say you went for a walk?

Agreed with all of the points made, but particularly this one

LevoMental · 21/05/2020 14:20

Tea I feel the same about "keyworker", it just sounds like one of those cringey middle-management meeting words - like "reaching out" or "cascading data".

I hate using it so I've taken to just telling people where I work.

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