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AIBU to ask English people not to say poorly?! (lighthearted)

586 replies

SliAnCroix · 29/04/2020 19:02

It sounds a bit moany and weak. Can't get to grips with grown women saying their husband was poorly. It would be like saying my husband took a week off work because he had a bubu. I know we all have our own slang and some Irish slang probably sounds strange outside of Ireland in the next village

I am not speaking on behalf of everybody outside of England, I do realise this.

And full disclaimer, the word dodi makes me wince. I have done my best to eradicate that word. Service to my country.

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Fluffybutter · 29/04/2020 22:33

I do say “poorly” in a whiny ,pathetic voice but only when I’m taking the piss

NaToth · 29/04/2020 22:35

To quote my Australian friend, catapulted into a hair salon with a mostly older clientele, "Poorly is bad, but badly is even worse."

SchadenfreudePersonified · 29/04/2020 22:35

Grown men and women do not get poorly.

It's frequently used by nurses and doctors to describe someone who is ill (very poorly = seriously ill) - or it is round here, anyway.

Thisismytimetoshine · 29/04/2020 22:36

Doctors describe patients as being poorly??

TheGreatWave · 29/04/2020 22:37

I have just done the quiz, it pretty much got it right as to where I was born and grew up.

terrelontane · 29/04/2020 22:37

Haven't rtft but are you OK with Welsh people saying they're 'poorly baaard under the doctor' when things are really serious?

DinosApple · 29/04/2020 22:38

One of my employees used to say he'd got an 'ouchy on his booboo' when he hurt himself. He always said it to make me laugh, he was a six ft tall, tattooed, skin head mechanic.

Evanna13 · 29/04/2020 22:38

I am Irish and I do find the word 'poorly' a bit strange but only because I am not familiar with it.
Generally I would say the following:

Under the weather - minor cold etc
Not well - vague sickness
Sick - ill
Got sick - vommited
Very sick - seriously ill

'Happy out', I would say this is used to describe someone who is clearly happy, like they are glowing,the happiness is coming out of them for all to see. An example would be " She is happy out playing with that toy" etc

SchadenfreudePersonified · 29/04/2020 22:39

If you're Scottish you're naw well

We have "not well" (and of course "not well at all" for death's door) here in the North East, in addition to the classic "bad".

eg "I didn't see X at work today"

"No - he's off bad"

ironicname · 29/04/2020 22:40

Poorly means very ill indeed.

I can't bear "sick" as it's an Americanism.

I'm "not very well" sounds childish to me.

I suspect that it's regional differences.

SchadenfreudePersonified · 29/04/2020 22:42

I hate “ah bless”.

I say this, but only with a voice dripping with sarcasm.

LaurieMarlow · 29/04/2020 22:42

I can't bear "sick" as it's an Americanism.

No it isn’t. Sheesh, this site!

Toddlerteaplease · 29/04/2020 22:42

We use poorly at work to mean really really ill.

Poshjock · 29/04/2020 22:44

Poorly is becoming more common in my area of Scotland but it never used to be.

@helpwithbingeing

Nae weel - mild cold, hay fever
Nae affy weel - anything beyond mild ... eg horrendous D&V that’s lasted five days or something
Affy nae weel - hospitalised, dying, or otherwise at risk of

There is a fourth level around here...

Deein' - which is the stage beyond Affy nae weel (with affy nae weel being a serious illness)

isabellerossignol · 29/04/2020 22:44

I can't bear "sick" as it's an Americanism.

Like Santa and Halloween? Wink

Moonmelodies · 29/04/2020 22:44

A Dodi sounds like some kind of Fayed.

Anoisagusaris · 29/04/2020 22:45

How in the name of shite is sick an Americanism?? Unless you mean when it’s used to be mean good/nice/cool (or whatever young ones use it for).

Sunbeam18 · 29/04/2020 22:45

Agree. It sounds like saying 'I'm feeble'. Scottish here too; nobody says it round here

FiddlefigOnTheRoof · 29/04/2020 22:46

Hate hate hate the term poorly

SchadenfreudePersonified · 29/04/2020 22:46

Poor and Door definitely do rhyme

No they bloody don't! Angry

How does "poo-uh" rhyme with 'daw"?

Crazy talk!

TrickyKid · 29/04/2020 22:46

Poorly is usually used by children. Don't most adults say ill? I agree it doesn't sound right.

geojojo · 29/04/2020 22:47

I find quite a few words annoying but actually really love poorly and definitely use it a lot.

Dreamstosell · 29/04/2020 22:47

Lauriemarlow - sorry don’t know how to tag quiz here I think 🤣

zukiecat · 29/04/2020 22:47

Poshjock

You said it better than me!

I forgot about Deein Grin

LaurieMarlow · 29/04/2020 22:49

No they bloody don't!

Where I’m from they’re pronounced closer to ‘pur’ and ‘dur’