To have told DH he was completely disgusting?

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He stuck his finger into a jar of biscoff spread, took a load out, licked his finger, then did it again.

Second time was for my benefit because I said "don't do that! You haven't washed your hands!" Because he thinks he's funny.

That's fucking disgusting isn't it? And childish? I'm not being unreasonable to be grossed out and refuse to have anything more to do with said jar of biscoff?

It's immature yes

Oh that’s grim op.
You need your own jar. Or jars.
Hide them!

Have you ever shared a toothbrush with him or had sex with him?

From anybody else I'd find it disgusting but not my husband. I'm sure most couples have done much more "disgusting" things together than that and family germs are shared germs.

I mean, it's not the best but I assume you've swapped bodily fluids with you dh before?

Worthy of an eye roll at the absolute most. Presumably you put his penis in your mouth on a semi-regular basis?

Toothbrush no, Sex, loads.

I'm really not one for being funny about stuff like that, but he'd just scratched his bum, and I draw the line at arse to mouth Anne

That is pretty minging.

Doesn't matter if you have "swapped fluids" before, jeez people - would you let your partner's spit in your mouths because you've kissed them before? Ugh.

Also not very hygienic in a pandemic.

That’s ducking disgusting and why people have to come up with sex comparisons is beyond me. Would any of you let your husband/partner stick his finger in your mouth if he hasn’t washed his hands properly after having a shit, picks his nose, scratches his arse, or any other number of scenarios? I doubt it and this is similar, because the OP has no idea what her husband was doing with his hands beforehand. He’s a disgusting beast.

It's not just unhygienic, it's common. Use a spoon.

It’s a bit ick, but really not deserving of the absolute conniptions some people are having.

People making the sex comparisons clearly have no idea how bacteria growth works. What a ridiculous thing to say

It is grim. Swapping bodily fluids is one thing - eating your DOg's mingled saliva, skin flakes and potential faecal matter out of a jar is another.

DH's, not dog's....

I think he's just swiped a whole jar of Biscoff for himself, clever.

As our fingertips are a hotbed of bacteria and the like YANBU - it’s gross — not envy.

He is completely disgusting for liking biscoff spread. That stuff tastes like wet cardboard.

what is biscoff spread?

What is Google?

Have you ever shared a toothbrush with him

People do this? Jesus Christ, hygiene standards are in the gutter for some of you

There probably was dog saliva on there too Jesus is included in sentences I never thought I'd write

Oh I want some biscoff now.

I’ve had a lot worse in my mouth than my husbands fingers

Sort of thing you'd tell your kids off for. Bit gack.

But then dh and I often use each other's toothbrushes and roll-on deodorant