To have told DH he was completely disgusting?

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He stuck his finger into a jar of biscoff spread, took a load out, licked his finger, then did it again.

Second time was for my benefit because I said "don't do that! You haven't washed your hands!" Because he thinks he's funny.

That's fucking disgusting isn't it? And childish? I'm not being unreasonable to be grossed out and refuse to have anything more to do with said jar of biscoff?

Hmm. I don't do crass.

No manners is not sexy.

Well it was meant to be a bit "lighthearted" diddl he's alright most of the time, I mean, I let him live here so he's not all bad

I still think it's stinking behaviour in his part but we've agreed it's his jar now, he won't do it again, he says, I will go on an essentials trip tomorrow we've run out of gin so will purchase fresh, and then I'll hide it.

Oh My Good Fucking God!!!! To Biscoff spread that is. Boak 🤢

I honestly don't get the references to sex. To me that's totally different and a bit like saying - you have vaginal sex so why don't you have anal?!

Just because you share some fluids consentually doesn't mean its OK to eg scratch his arse, touch the bins, keyboard, phone, all sorts then rub his nails in your food!

Perfectly fine to eat it straight out of the jar. If you use a clean teaspoon. Second dip requires new spoon...

Is your husband 13?

Had he seriously just scratched his arse? That's beyond gruesome

Dirty bastard.

I hate bad manners.

What is Google?

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What do you mean by common @DisgraceToTheYChromosome?

It's gross. Having sex with someone doesn't mean you want all his nastiest germs. I don't scratch myself and then lick my fingers, so why would I want someone else's bum and finger germs?

Seriously, that's a huge turn-off, and I'd tell him so though it sounds like you've already reached a truce.

It's not the fact that he's done it now, it's that presumably you're not going to eat all the jar today, so those germs will keep festering for the rest of that jar's short life.

Maybe he'll use that as an excuse to eat it all today.:)

There are just too many gross husbands on MN.

Sharing toothbrushes is fucking gross. A brush that removes leftover bits of food and doesn't get sanitised between? And you share that? Absolutely disgusting.

Having someone's penis in your mouth or kissing is not the same as saliva growing germs in THE PERFECT petri dish, sugary food at room temperature. Honestly some of you are not very smart.

It’s a pet hate of mine.

I don’t want saliva in my food or drink.

That’s rank. I don’t get the comparisons either. One might happily suck someone’s penis but you wouldn’t want them dipping it in the condiments willy nilly (sorry) would you!

Having grown things in petrie dishes, nope that is disgusting.

So he does realise thats hes now growing a culture of whatever bacteria were on his fingers / in his mouth in the perfect sugary medium? Grim (and Im not that fussy!)

The only shocking thing for me is that he had to lick his own biscoff - covered fingers as you didn't swoop in there first x

"The only shocking thing for me is that he had to lick his own biscoff - covered fingers as you didn't swoop in there first"

Well he'd apparently just scratched his arse so...