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Do you think this is the end of the people popping round culture?

56 replies

OhioOhioOhio · 28/04/2020 08:15

That's one of my favourite things about this. Nobody pops round. Surely everyone will be much more thoughtful about imposing their germs on people after this?

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N0tfinished · 28/04/2020 08:30

I think it was fading out anyway but you're probably right. Definitely has lessened with the generations as my parents/IL's love it

puffinandkoala · 28/04/2020 08:40

I'd love to think it was the end of the cold calling culture.

Dessicator · 28/04/2020 08:49

I dont think popping round is as much a thing as when I was young and neighbours popped round for a cup of tea and a chat. I always message first anyway.

polobelt · 28/04/2020 08:50

Hopefully

GREATAUNT1 · 28/04/2020 09:20

No, it will kill some people not being able to impose for hours on end.

Apart from the deaths & supermarket trips, I've not felt so relaxed in years.

BlackKite · 28/04/2020 09:37

I hope not, I think that would be the wrong message to get from the whole crisis.

Washyourhandsyoufilthyanimal · 28/04/2020 09:40

Imposing their germs. Yes when a friend pops in I think she can’t just be here for a cup of tea she must be here to impose her germs- are you sure people actually come and see you? You do not sound friendly at all.

IGottaGetOuttaThisPlace · 28/04/2020 09:47

No one ever pops round here, I would hate that. Luckily it died off in the 80s round here.

DDIJ · 28/04/2020 09:50

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RufustheLanglovingreindeer · 28/04/2020 09:56

Im at home and i have a lot of friends i see on a regular basis for coffee etc

But none of us pop

BUT, if they did pop I’d be pleased that they weren’t able to pop

lazylinguist · 28/04/2020 09:57

I think it had mostly already died out. I don't know anyone who just pops round and I never do it myself.

RufustheLanglovingreindeer · 28/04/2020 09:57

I have actually hidden from my dad...and made dd hide 😳

And then made her promise nit to hide from me...

Chillipeanuts · 28/04/2020 09:58

Oh I do hope so 😁

dayswithaY · 28/04/2020 09:58

Let's hope it does.

Hairdowntohisknees · 28/04/2020 09:58

I hope not. But then I like people coming round.

BeatrixPottersAlterEgo · 28/04/2020 09:59

Sadly the one person who I wish would stop popping will pop more when lockdown ends. She will very much see it as an opportunity to make up for lost time. I'll have to keep my door locked 24/7

RufustheLanglovingreindeer · 28/04/2020 10:00

I like people coming round...when I’m expecting them

I’m very busy with my coffee mornings Grin

kimlo · 28/04/2020 10:00

no I hope not. I enjoy my friends coming around for a visit and a cup of tea.

LolaDarkdestroyer · 28/04/2020 10:00

Hope so! Save me diving behind the sofa.

LovingLola · 28/04/2020 10:02

I love my kids friends calling in.
And mine.

PippaPegg · 28/04/2020 10:04

@RufustheLanglovingreindeer Grin

zozozoe · 28/04/2020 10:05

I used to hate people popping round and now I really miss it

Therollockingrogue · 28/04/2020 10:08

I hope so

Raidblunner · 28/04/2020 10:16

It will definitely have a lasting impact on people 'popping round'.
I certainly won't miss the ex-offenders trying to sell me tea towels & dish cloths for twice the price or the pesky Jehovah's spreading their rhetoric messages.

SpokeTooSoon · 28/04/2020 10:17

I hate “popping in”. We’ve had an upsurge in it during lockdown, oddly. Friends texting to say “we’ll be walking past yours in 2 mins if you want to come to the door”. So we all stand on the doorstep yelling to them at the end of the path. I don’t mind it really but we never had this before. I guess people are just missing that little bit of contact.

Growing up, my parents always had friends popping in unannounced. One of our neighbours just used to open the back door and shout “it’s only me!” And walk right in. My parents never minded this but when I was older and at home on my own listening to music or doing homework or having secret chats with secret boyfriends on the phone - the only phone, landline in the hall - it would kind of irk me.

I hid behind the sofa many times...

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