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Garden and fence

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Onthe1234 · 25/04/2020 07:52

Hello sorry will be slightly long. i moved in to my new house in Feb.and the weather is nice we have started clearing the garden and decided to put a new fence up all the way around as one side hasent really got one and the other side is just bushes and tress and I have 2 dc under 6 so need to be safe to let them go out and the neighbour was fine up until we said we was keeping the good side off the fence as it will stop the kids climbing on it but she wants to good side as her dog can climb but went out the other day came back to a note and she wants to know all what we've got planned for the garden and wants to see planning permission i don't need planning permission for a fence do I? As long as its not above 2m she also wants to know what else we have got planned for the garden as it is unlevel and we was going to dig so much to level it then put a patio on shes got no right as its my garden and will have nothing to do with her or is she right and I need to let her no my plans?

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OmgThereAreNoPlanesAboveMeNow · 28/04/2020 11:55

@antisupermum no it wouldn't. People would still ask if OP had permissions from landlord🤷🏻
You are right that at least 1 poster asking if op had permissions from council didn't know that you can just go and do alterations like this. Me. Cheers for being condescending while claiming others are🙄

Onthe1234 · 28/04/2020 12:20

Yes we plan on living her for some years and hoping to buy it. It is her bondrey the council said this morning so iv got to wait for somone to come out and see if I can put a fence up or if they advise her to do it

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RuffleCrow · 28/04/2020 12:22

Just ignore her. Your land, under 2m, your business.

Traviis · 28/04/2020 13:25

It's not her land.

LakieLady · 28/04/2020 16:54

"A council property is not the same as a private tenancy. You do not need permission for every small amendment you want to make. The councils usually WANT you to make these changes as it saves them the time and money. (speaking from my experiences with my own Local Authority, cant say this is an across the board thing)*

It certainly isn't an across the board thing. The council here are strict and made one of my clients pay for an inspection because he replaced the bath taps with a shower mixer himself. They insist that it is done by a qualified plumber with insurance in case it all goes horribly wrong and floods the property, and the one below if it's flats.

They've also had some bizarre things happen, like people taking out dividing walls that were load bearing and my favourite, the people who converted a small bedroom to an en suite bathroom, which subsequently leaked, and the floor collapsed while the tenant was in the bath! That happened at a house not far from me and involved the fire brigade and everything.

Levelling all or part of a sloping site isn't a simple matter unless the slope is quite gentle. I once got quotes to alter the sloping top part of my garden, and it was really complex. The quotes varied between £3k and £5k, and this was approx 25 years ago.

The possible consequences of doing a bodge job and ending up with a landslip are pretty serious.

cookingmywaythroughlockdown · 28/04/2020 19:41

So she was right about her boundary then?

converseandjeans · 30/04/2020 18:03

So you can't just go ahead can you? It needs to be joint decision for sure.

Onthe1234 · 01/05/2020 06:20

No carnt just do it wanting for the council to come out to tell me where abouts I can put the fence or they might have to do something there selfs they have got the legal team involved as they have said.its unsightly and not safe and just a make shift fence but you would think she would be happy someone else paying for it as its not cheap

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RebelWhoWashesFor19Seconds · 01/05/2020 07:34

Sod all this malarkey. If you're erecting a fence on your side of the boundary fence already installed you can do what the hell you want as long as the council is kept informed and it's not over planning permission needed height. No way would I be paying out a fortune in fencing to have the crappy side. Your neighbour can stop her dogs climbing it by doing what she's doing now: using the old makeshift shitty fence.
It sounds like she wants you to pay for the fencing so she can remover the boundary shit fence and her garden will look good as well as her getting an extra few inches of garden.

The correct response all along should have been "Sure, I will happily keep you informed of any matters that you need to know"
Which of course is nothing. What you do to your garden is NONE of her business as long as it doesn't affect hers.

Onthe1234 · 01/05/2020 08:08

@RebelWhoWashesFor19Seconds thats what we was going to then she said she dosent know where the bondrey is we both no that its the concrate posts going all up the garden but I'm not willing to get it fitted then to be told its got to get took down because its in the rong place council have said it is the bondrey but they need to comemand check to be 100percent sure

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