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To regret accepting a friend request

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Bashfulbanana42 · 24/04/2020 23:29

When I was at school two brothers (not twins) were in my year. I knew one way more than the other. I see him in a local restaurant sometimes as he is the chef. I have him on facebook. His brother added me on Facebook this week and without thinking I accepted as I have many old school people on mine and it's nice to keep in touch and see what they have been up too. (early 30s)

As soon as I accepted his request I regretted it. He is with a women from school who comes from a very "hard family" they have kids together. He's doing boxing and has alot of tough people on his page. (I had a scroll through)

One thing that's bothering me is he has a few lads in common with me but none of the other females from school. I just presumed some would be on there.

The thing is now I'm worried his girlfriend will want to know why he added me. I don't know why he's added me now I've seen his page. I certainly don't want any trouble or to piss her off.

I can't really just delete him again can I? Is that rude as I have his brother on mine? I know how ridiculous this post looks. It's just I don't want any hassle. Or am I overthinking it? I'll be honest theres alot of people on his page that you wouldn't mess with. Aghhhh why did I accept. He doesn't seem to add women really which makes me worry even more

OP posts:
Ughmaybenot · 25/04/2020 12:15

This is so embarrassing, how old are you? You’re really overthinking this. You also sound very judgemental about someone who you chose to accept as a friend Confused just delete him, or don’t. It really doesn’t matter, just stop with the hand-wringing.

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