At my heaviest I was 12 stone (I know not the biggest) however I felt so awful with myself, I was depressed, I had no energy, my knees hurt, my skin was awful and to make it worse I always dressed in baggy clothes! I'm now 9 stone and size 6/8 (give or take, dependant on the day of the week
It took me 2 years to lose 3 stone! Yes, 2 whole years! I had barely any motivation and kept "falling off the wagon" if you will, too many ahem excuses, too many temptations. Until I became absolutely sick of myself and my situation. I thought to myself "I'm doing this to myself, I'm the reason I'm overweight, only me"
Everyone makes the same mistakes time and time again when it comes to weight loss;
You don't really want to lose weight because losing weight is just too much effort. You want to take a tea pill or drink a shake and you then just become your ideal weight! Although we all wish there was!
These pills and shakes and what have you are totally unrealistic because eventually you'll be lead by temptation again and you'll be back to square one.
Just STOP RIGHT THERE.
Every time you fail to lose weight because you started eating TONS after trying these shakes you make yourself feel bad each time and resign yourself to never losing weight. Weight loss is REALLY difficult if you are not in the right frame of mind to apply yourself to actually making some effort to it.
Weight loss is 80% what you and 20% exercise.
It's all calories in vs calories out. If you eat less than what you burn each day you will lose weight eventually. Start off with a small cut at first maybe 100-200 calories each day. There are loads of calorie trackers out there such as Myfitnesspal although I get that can be some effort for some but it helps you to get used to what calories are in your food. Now you could essentially eat ANYTHING as long as your calories each day are under what you burn HOWEVER say for example if you have a sugary snack breakfast, you are going to be hungry in a couple hours because it will not sustain you till lunch.
There needs to be some balance to your calories BUT you ARE still allowed your treats. If you cut and cut and cut you end up failing because you crave sustenance and usually this our choices are sugar or sugar because it's quick calories. So have your cake and eat it just make sure you've enough calories to have it.
Once you get your mind in order and eating habits try doing an extra 10-20 mins of walking each day. Then work up to bigger workouts.