@Whatarisk Wow, the response is incredible. I’ve tried in my head to make some sort of sense or conclusion, but I can’t.
Bottom line is that a family house purchase is a long term investment, so if you find a house you love and can afford, while still being able to save for a rainy day (covid-19 just taught us all the value of that!), then you make it happen.
Now, from the position of a seller of a 6bed country house w a separate 2bed cottage, divorced and in my 50’s, please stop generalising about my finances, personal circumstances, level of desperation and whether my price is reasonable. Every seller is unique. Fact is, I could stay here for the rest of my life. I am so tired of low ball offers because the hubbies want to “win” on the negotiation, and think I’m obviously desperate! Wives love my house, every time, because it’s a glorious family home and its target market IS a young successful family like we were, buying for a future. The added benefit of a fab cottage is extra income (either tenancy or AirBnB), OR for grandparents, or even that fab benefit: staff, should that be possible.
I’m off the market now, but my estate agent (Hampshire) has been very active w requests from London, w two agreed SALES, subject to removal of lockdown OR, bought sight unseen! He has asked me to video it which I have and it so it continues to be marketed. Three families have viewed it this past week!
So, moral is, stop generalising about conditions or sellers. Go and negotiate a great sale of your flat (or keep it if you can cuz London rentals are always good value, especially on the 1/2 beds). Be a kind positive minded buyer and you will have a very successful purchase. Being difficult and persnickety just makes the whole process way too stressful! Good luck