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Poll on if you would send your (primary) aged dc back to school on 11/5

490 replies

THATscurryfungeBITCH · 16/04/2020 07:35

Would you be happy to send your primary aged dc back to school on 11th May?

Yes - YABU
No - YANBU

OP posts:
ingagnes24 · 17/04/2020 17:54

Yes - pretty sure
We all went through the virus already so they should be fine by then. They got it mid March and were over it fairly quickly.

HighTreason · 17/04/2020 17:56

Yes, none of us are vulnerable and my spouse still has to work in a supermarket anyway so its not like a total lockdown for us.

perniciousdot · 17/04/2020 17:57

No. Mine won't be going back until August at the earliest and even that will be dependent on the situation at the time.

wildchild554 · 17/04/2020 18:01

For me it's a no, I'm a single parent and high risk I do not want to risk my children losing their mother at a young age and ending up in care and how on earth am I supposed to shield if they in school and risking them bringing it home.

Loobylu44 · 17/04/2020 18:02

I think that it does depend on what happens in the coming weeks. I think that if schools go back it will be difficult to have any other meaningful social distancing. I can’t imagine many kids will understand that you can be essentially part of a mass gathering all day then having to stay at home or not socialise in the evenings and weekends. I think the knock on effect on social activity needs to be considered properly.

Katjolo · 17/04/2020 18:03

No

sunshine11 · 17/04/2020 18:04

Yes absolutely, statistically the risk to young children is minimal (and if you check the governments official figures at the Office of National Statistics you’ll see the number of ‘excess’ deaths is tiny).

Closing the country for six weeks is ridiculous. We need to get back to ‘business as usual’ and stop pretending this is so much worse than it is.

Kayagh · 17/04/2020 18:10

I know secondary schools here are sending work for s3 s4 and s5 after 4th May my youngest are due to start primary in August but they are scared right now so considering deferring a year to allow a full year of ore school

perniciousdot · 17/04/2020 18:11

Yes absolutely, statistically the risk to young children is minimal

But the risk to others is huge Hmm

LouH1981 · 17/04/2020 18:12

No, I have 2 vulnerable children and a vulnerable adult at home.

Parker231 · 17/04/2020 18:13

@sunshine11 - we’ve not hit the peak yet and potentially there could be 40,000 deaths. Hardly ridiculous to try and protect the public.

LouH1981 · 17/04/2020 18:14

What @perniciousdot said.

Rosebel · 17/04/2020 18:15

The death rate went up by over 1000 today from yesterday. There is no way schools are going to open with statistics like that.

TomSuay · 17/04/2020 18:17

No, I think the risk to teachers would be unfairly large, with an estimate of only 10% of the population having had the virus.

I'm also pregnant and wouldn't feel comfortable with the exposure. I can work from home though and work around my children, a luxury many don't have.

nuitdesetoiles · 17/04/2020 18:20

Yes. School closures have a negligible effect on transmission rates and I can already see the effect on both my dc mental health.

We need a return to some kind of normality or the long term harmful social, educational and emotional effects will be worse than the virus. CAMHS was on it's knees anyway...constant emergencies...this will likely only get worse.

Not everyone is having idyllic Sunday supplement family time and reconnecting etc. no home ed here as both of us far too busy working as key workers but behind the scenes planning not front line so yes both dcs need to go back.

JPduck · 17/04/2020 18:21

After May half term is better

readyornot22 · 17/04/2020 18:22

Oh wow!! I think you’ll find they do 😂

Therapywitch · 17/04/2020 18:24

I definitely would for my child’s sake. Quite concerned that if we send them back to school in September - judging by the upsurge in colds about 3 weeks later - that we would just be delaying a second peak to October or November. Let alone the long term effect psychologically of the message of an extended period of ‘don’t go near anyone outside your family’ will have for some.
Not so sure teachers would be happy with 11 May start back but our school’s teachers are working at the moment for key workers children so they might be.

dustyparadeground · 17/04/2020 18:24

I think it may be Sept before the schools go back. So heart says yes head says no

Parker231 · 17/04/2020 18:25

The government’s furloughed scheme has been extended until the end of June so can’t see anything happening for a good while yet.

Blah1881 · 17/04/2020 18:26

You betcha!

jackie2669 · 17/04/2020 18:28

Wow stop pretending this is much worse than it is !!!!!
Some people not living in the real world.
Who will get the blame if we send kids back to early and death rates go up ?
Parents or the government.

Hunstanton · 17/04/2020 18:31

Yes

littlemisskt · 17/04/2020 18:34

I would keep mine home, because I am able to. The school is bursting at the seams on a normal day and I expect they will still be some level of social distancing required so I would rather the children that need to be there have more space.

Yorkshiretolondon · 17/04/2020 18:46

It depends on how things pan out in the next 3 weeks doesn’t it? If we are to social distance still how can schools open? Not just issues of social distancing but understaffing... many teachers & school staff are not young, have underlying medical issues or a just plain and simply scared- after all no PPE at schools...

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