My ds is 2 on Tuesday and so we are having a family get together on Sunday afternoon. The 'party' is from 2.30-5 and I have only asked both sets of grandparents, uncle and godparents, there are no children coming as we are only having the get together for family members.
I am a childminder so will actually have a house full of children on his birthday and we are going out for the day to soft play as his birthday treat.
I am wondering whether I am being unreasonable putting out just a few bowls of crisps and nibbles instead of loads of party food. My ds will have had lunch before they come and will have tea when they leave and am assuming that they will do the same. We will of course have a birthday cake during the afternoon so that they can see him blow out his candles.
MIL reaction was well its not a real party if there is no party food, imo ds doesn't even know what a birthday is really, we are actually having this get together as MIL doesn't respect my job and often thinks she can turn up during work hours to see ds as I am at home I am not really working!! Obviously I don't want her turning up next week when I have mindees from 8-6 and ds goes to bed at 7.
Is it being unreasonable to not have loads of food and is it being unreasonable to wish my MIL will be able to keep her opinions to herself for 2 1/2 hours!
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to not have lots of food at ds 2nd 'birthday party'?
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OFSTEDoutstanding · 13/09/2007 23:02
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