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Aibu to be angry with stupid, arrogant joggers

83 replies

Jayfee · 10/04/2020 17:22

So, today, just out for a walk and like most people taking care to keep 2 metres apart from other people. Then a young fit woman jogs by from behind and leaves about 2-3 ft gap from me. She could have jogged around me and kept her distance but, no, why should she deviate her path. Selfish!!! And gp on TV just said that such behaviour does put pedestrians at greater risk.

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opticaldelusion · 10/04/2020 19:30

Oh my fucking goodness. You have absolutely got coronavirus now and all joggers should be shot.

Macncheeseballs · 10/04/2020 19:33

Both walkers and runners can make way for each other

MorrisZapp · 10/04/2020 19:34

Yanbu. Loads of them round here, I wish I knew why the feck they need to run on the main road where the shops and people are. I've seen some of them running into the road to keep distance, but if there's traffic they just dodge round others on the pavement. It's beyond selfish and it utterly pisses me off.

I'm a jogger too but I wouldn't run on main thoroughfares and I can't understand why they do it.

CremeEggThief · 10/04/2020 19:35

I have absolutely no problem with joggers and runners taking their daily exercise.

But they should always give way to walkers on pavements. Which most of them do, to be fair.

Samtsirch · 10/04/2020 20:03

This thread and many others reminds me of the Dr Zeus story about the North going Zax and the South going Zax.🙂

Winesalot · 10/04/2020 20:31

Aibu to be angry with stupid, arrogant joggers?

No! As long as you are angry with stupid, arrogant walkers as well.

As both a jogger and a walker, I have to say I have found more walkers ignoring giving 2 m to people than joggers. Particularly groups who refuse to fall into single file to give everyone a chance to use the path (and of course they can fall back into whatever formation as they need). Or the people standing each side of the path talking which means nobody can go through with 2 m each side to spare (I have seen this each time I am out). But that is my area and of course, each area is different and at different times.

You would be very unreasonable to say ALL joggers were the problem as other threads have done.

As to why runners don’t get off the path... everytime I get off the path onto the grass to avoid someone, I get injured. I am not young and these injuries can mean the end of running for exercise to beat illness for me. Why should I get off a wide path to accommodate a group who wants to walk 3 or 4 across and take the entire path or in this CV time, to accommodate a couple who refuse to separate?

BogRollBOGOF · 10/04/2020 21:50

No, it is not a fact that runners should always give way to walkers Confused

In the real world it's much more nuanced. Things like traffic, sun direction, incline, the surrounding area play a part. If a person is travelling uphill with the sun in their eyes, it maybe much harder for them to see an oncoming person and plan to avoid the other person. We all have a responsibility to each other, regardless of speed.

Generally I make space for other people whether I walk or run. I run solo, I generally keep left, I look around me, I move as appropriate in advance.
There was an incident last year on a narrow, single pavement next to a busy 40mph road. I was running up the steep hill and the traffic approaches from behind. Two young women were walking down side by side. I decided that rather than playing chicken with fast moving traffic, I would keep going on my course. She finally pulled in behind her mate inches from collision.
(I am not using that route at present for obvious reasons, and although the traffic is lighter, it's still the direct route to the nearest supermarkets, and frequently used by emergency vehicles, and I do not fancy having to move a metre into that road for self preservation reasons)

Solo people should mutually make way for each other. Groups should fall into single file to allow others to pass safely.

Running on long grass/ uneven verges carries a higher risk of twisting/ spraining an ankle as it's not always possible to see trip hazards of dips, humps or debris.

Running on the carriageway of a road without a pavement should be on the right to see oncoming traffic, except when it is safer to be on the outside of a bend or approaching a blind summit when you are giving more visibility to the vehicle behind you to react rather than suprising an oncoming vehicle. Exactly the same applies to pedestrians. While you may need to step on to a verge to assist a vehicle to pass safely, it is safer to be on the carriageway than the typical rough verge.

Kez0777 · 10/04/2020 22:02

I'm a runner and I am always the first to move and cross the road and can some times spend a lot of time crossing over the road and back over (country roads) I feel like if I didn't move in plenty of time the other people wouldn't. I'm always polite and give a wave and a hello.
I'm also a walker and when we walk as a family of four we do this in twos and when we see other people we always cross and then walk single file or stand and wait for them to pass.
It's politeness and if anyone isn't moving out of the way it's just rude and doesn't matter if they are runners, walkers or cyclists!

Alconleigh · 10/04/2020 22:11

I'm a runner and have always crossed the road away from people anyway. No one needed to hear me wheezing up on them even before a global respiratory pandemic.

When out as a pedestrian recently I have been astonished by the number of people who seem to have never heard of the concept of single file...........

Hippopotas · 10/04/2020 22:24

Ah yes yet another thread tarring all joggers/runners with the same brush yawn

Here’s a thought for you maybe it’s not cause they are are a jogger/runner maybe they are just a dick like some pedestrians can also be.

EyeSoLated · 10/04/2020 22:27

Surely if you passed you, you'd be more at risk of inhaling her breath than while she's behind you inhaling yours though?

EyeSoLated · 10/04/2020 22:27

Duh *if she passed you

Tootletum · 10/04/2020 22:28

Why is everyone so angry with everyone.

Amboseli · 10/04/2020 22:41

Everyone is not angry with everyone. I'm annoyed at the selfish, inconsiderate, idiotic people who do not follow the social distancing rules, which in my experience so far has been the joggers not the walkers nor the cyclists.

Sounsociable · 10/04/2020 22:42

YABU for grouping "joggers" as one group of people who behave in a particular way. I am a runner. I've run regularly for 10 years so I havent just discovered going out (as some people on MN seem to have a problem with). The last week I've probably encountered 20 sets of people walking, coming towards me, so I'm not coming at them unseen, and every time I've moved into the middle of the road or climbed onto a bank or verge to create distance. Only about 2 sets of people have bothered to even attempt to go in single file and none have smiled or acknowledged me. I could take this to mean that all walkers are selfish but I know that it's just some people are arrogant or selfish whether walking, running, cycling or driving.

penisbeakers · 10/04/2020 22:55

I've had the same issue, a few of them have run full pelt at me and I had to move out into the road. On the other hand I have also had many move out of my way and run out into the road.

A bloke was out running with his kid in a pushchair, with no intention of moving out of my way. I was in shock mostly cos of his child. Why out them at risk like that?

Winesalot · 10/04/2020 23:00

BogOff

I have been on recent threads where walkers have categorically said that runners must give way to walkers because walkers are slower and it is always the fast persons responsibility. I have not been able to find anything that says this.

There seems to be a sense that moving to single file ‘ruins the enjoyment’ of the walking groups fun. Like it is only about their enjoyment of the path and no one else should interfere. And lo, don’t ever ask a walker to look around apparently. I have come across some very strident opinions from walkers on these threads and most of them seem to feel runners absolutely have no right to be there. oh, and that too much exercise, such as running a few times a week Confused, is likely to have adverse health effects and cause an early demise. It’s like another dimension.

CatherineOfAragonsPomegranate · 10/04/2020 23:03

Well hang on. A lot of these people have been out running on deserted streets for weeks, months and years, until everyone else suddenly decided that they have to go walking, and are now wandering all over the place.

This is true but the number of joggers has exploded expotentially as many who used to go to aerobics class, gym, or swimming have now taken up running as replacement exercise. As a pedestrian you are constantly having to move or face someone running near you way more times than previously. A good many previous couch sitters have also taken it up as a new hobby so they're not just having an obligatory walk.

I have to say though that imo the real CF are the dog walkers who feel foot paths and pavements were made with priority for canines, forcing you to make way for their pet or refusing to call their dogs back!

Malvinaa81 · 10/04/2020 23:13

Joggers are a nuisance at this time and their bleating and self justification just shows this.

Iggly · 10/04/2020 23:16

As a runner (not a jogger, thanks), it’s the walkers who fail to observe social distancing. Taking up the pavement, walking in packs, ambling along.

june2007 · 10/04/2020 23:16

You sore he wasn,t mooving but neither did you so both as bad. And that was just the jogger you saw. I passed walkers and joggers on my dog walt today and everyone was ver curtiouse.

mintcucumber · 10/04/2020 23:17

Arseholes are arseholes whether they’re jogging or not.

I run. I’ve been running for years. The whingeing from people who wouldn’t ordinarily walk the fucking length of themselves is doing my head in.

ArtieFufkinPolymerRecords · 10/04/2020 23:17

Joggers are a nuisance at this time and their bleating and self justification just shows this.

or

walkers are a nuisance at this time and their bleating and self justification just shows this.

Krisskrosskiss · 10/04/2020 23:18

A jogger ran into me yesterday from behind... when I'd moved away from the main path to give some people passing more space... so this jogger had me in plain sight and could see I couldnt see her but obviously decided it was more important for her to not have to stop jogging for one second than it was to pay attention to any social distancing rules...

Winesalot · 10/04/2020 23:18

I think it is very safe to say that there are idiots fitting in all categories of exercise. And I think that it is everyone’s responsibility to make sure that they do their bit, even if it means walking single file for a minute to let another person through. And this includes small people on scooters being to the side and making sure dogs are well behaved.

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