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To talk to you about life in Spain right now

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Changednamesorry · 05/04/2020 14:08

In case UK follows many other countries and tightens the rules, I made a post about what it's like here in Spain.

A few things worth buying. Vitamin D for kids in case you are not allowed to take them out from next week, especially if you have no outside space. Craft materials (these are now very scarce here as supermarkets have had to close that section if they had it to discourage browsing). Disney Plus for movie nights. Microwave popcorn!

I live in Spain. We have an apartment in the city centre and no outside space at all. I am separated from my son's father but we chose for him to move in just before the lockdown as we saw it coming in the news and wanted to ensure the kids were not separated from him for months on end. We get on very well, I appreciate this is not an option for everyone. We also have a flatmate who is a lovely 27 year old Portuguese guy. So we are 3 adults and 2 kids in 115 square metres of space..... And that's better than some of our friends who live in 60 or 70 square metre apartments. Spanish children have not been outside for 3 weeks. My sons are 9 and 3 and normally active boys doing lots of sports and we are normally out of the house every day between 8am and 8:30pm. That has all changed. Schools are fully closed and have been since 13th March, no exceptions.

  1. How are people coping with kids?
Varying levels of coping, of course. Here with the little one I bake, do drawing, dance, play football inside etc. For the older one I made little bags. One has basketball drills (his favorite sport) which he does 2 a day. One has exercise sets (I will post an example), one has different amounts of screen time and one has activities linked to school (maths, history, Spanish, English, science projects, baking etc). He chooses 3 of those.
  1. Grocery shopping.
My ex goes to the shops once every 6 days. That's it. You are asked to carry a paper justifying your journey. You can not go to whatever shop you choose. You must go to the closest one to home. If you are caught turning this into a walk you will be stopped and fined between 600 and 30000 euros. If the police decide you are covering up a walk with a "shopping trip".... Fined. Someone I know was fined 200 euros for only buying a can of coke and a chocolate. We have not seen scenes of panic buying or bulk buying here, possibly because in cities most do not have a car so you take a granny trolley and a couple of bags for life so no space for millones of toilet paper etc. This may be different in rural areas but there haven't been many reports of it (I haven't seen any, in fact). People wear a mask and gloves and supermarkets make you queue outside 2 meters apart and don't let many people in at a time. Most supermarkets also provide gloves and require you to wear them.
  1. What can you leave the house for?
Essential food shopping, pharmacy, medical appointments, essential workers, walk your dog (but only so he can go to the toilet... No big long walks) Only allowed to leave the house individually unless you are accompanying someone who is unable to go alone.

4.Can you use your garden or roof terrace?
If it is for private use, yes. If it is for communal use (shared garden or roof terrace with other flats), no. You'll get fined as if you were outside.

  1. Clapping?
Yes. Every night for keyworkers at 8pm. Most people join in. Slight difference with UK is its unusual for kids to be in bed before 9pm here. Occasionally will be extra one for kids at 6pm.
  1. Doctors appointments
All non urgent appointments canceled. Telephone appointments with emailed prescriptions available and I had one within an hour of asking.

Please stay safe. It's difficult, but it's not forever and it will be less time the more people abide by the rules. Feel free to ask any questions and I will try to answer. It's tough, but we are coping. So will you if the UK tightens the rules for a while.

OP posts:
Pickles89 · 07/04/2020 00:42

@Ofitck

I'm sorry your 6yo is struggling. Do you do Joe Wicks? I find participating in his PE sessions is giving me a boost mental health wise.

mumsmas1 · 07/04/2020 09:22

@Changednamesorry
Thanks for this very helpful and encouraging.

Keep well and keep doing as well as you are x

AliciaWhiskers · 13/04/2020 12:50

@Changednamesorry I’ve been very slowly reading this thread and have found it really interesting. What is the feeling there today with some people beginning to go back to work? Are the lockdown rules still the same?

ladybee28 · 13/04/2020 13:00

@AliciaWhiskers I'm not the OP but I am in Spain –for most of us nothing's changed - we're still on strict lockdown until April 26th. The President has said it's likely to extend beyond that until 10th May.

Non-essential workers like construction and manufacturing are returning, but have to be able to maintain a 2m distance between employees and have significant safety measures in place.

A number of experts think it's too soon:

english.elpais.com/economy_and_business/2020-04-13/as-some-spaniards-return-to-work-today-experts-debate-whether-it-is-still-too-soon.html

The rest of us are still under full lockdown.

AliciaWhiskers · 13/04/2020 13:09

@ladybee28 thank you for that update. It does feel very early but the balance must be very difficult to achieve between safety and the economy. One question that I have been wondering about - what is the media and reporting like over there? Some of the reporting here is very sensationalist and scare mongering and on the whole pretty negative. What’s it like over there?

ladybee28 · 13/04/2020 13:29

@AliciaWhiskers it depends on where you are in Spain. Cataluña, the Basque country, the Canaries and the rest of the peninsula all have varying views of what's going on, understandably, and are reporting accordingly.

We have tabloids and broadsheets as much as any other country and the reporting varies. But there's no Murdoch empire here, so... perhaps that makes a difference?

Kiquina · 13/04/2020 22:57

Thanks so much for your post. Very interesting.

wrongsideofhistorymyarse · 14/04/2020 11:15

My parents live near Gandia. Mum has cancer and her hysterectomy has been cancelled - it should have taken place today. So she's been at home for 4 weeks while stepfather has done the shopping.

A couple of weeks ago he was ticketed by the police for having non essential items - I think mum had asked him to get wine. He doesn't speak Spanish (he's tried) and the police officer was furious.

The name was removed from the ticket and it was shown on the front page of a local newspaper with an editorial. Last week TV reporters turned up on their doorstep and harangued mum about what my stepfather had done. Apparently it's on Youtube.

They didn't seem to give a damn that mum has cancer. Angry

seventyone72seventy3 · 14/04/2020 11:56

@wrongsideofhistorymyarse
That's awful. I am in Italy and have bought lots of wine! Afaik nobody has said anything about buying non-essential items.

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