Getting pregnant whilst on the non hormonal IUD

[Amoss]

Hi All, this past week and half i have had endless pregnancy symptoms. I had the non hormonal IUD inserted in december. I just started seeing my new man after getting out of a 15YEAR MARRIAGE! Our relationship has been incredible on all levels. We were looking to a future together but if im pregnant which im 85%certain i am. Its gna just make things really messy and complicated. I mean i wd keep the baby. But i dont think Hes ready for that yet. But i feel sometimes we cant.plan our lives how we want it and God puts his spell on it. I have two young children-boys. Before the whole lock down i was looing for a place to move into to start my new life.....im now stuck here in this house i co own with my ex who is living at his parents. Plan was for him to remortgage,buy me out and.i move on etc. Now i got this on my hands. I seriously dont know what im gna do. Just to add i may have to hide my baby bump until its out and say im fostering!!!! I wanted more children.....my ex didnt. And this i believe is fate. Do i continue the pregnancy without his approval? It will be difficult for me. But i believe its meant to be.

Oh, my 8 year old son came up to me yesterday knowing nothing of my expectant pregnancy. He had just prayed and made a connection with good. He said he asked god to jeep us all protected and healthy during this testing time. Keep my brother,mother,father and..... sister!!! Then he said but we dont have a sister and he laughed!!! And i laughed too thinking omg thats weird. More signs right there!!!!

Are you writing a story for Lifetime or something? I know this isolation boredom is getting to all of us, but maybe work on the creative writing skills a bit more before trying them out on the public.

I think taking a pregnancy test would be a good start so you know exactly wether you are pregnant or not.

Seriously?

Oh just carry on and ignore everything I'd say. All sounds a bit tedious anyhow.

Go and get a pregnancy test. Stop planning how you are going to hide your bump/plan the rest of your life etc etc when you might not even be pregnant. Your son's connection with God sounds like wishful thinking on your part.

If you are pregnant with an IUD insitu, the pregnancy may not be straightforward anyway.

Maybe do a pregnancy test and get medical advice re: the IUD if it's positive rather than covering fantasies of concealing a birth?

have you even taken a test?!

You need to take a test.

If it’s positive of course you can choose to continue the pregnancy regardless of what the father wants. But do a test.

U shd tk a tst, find out if ur preggo or not. Nt gna lye, good aint gna jeep y'all safe in hes arms so u got alot ov tuff tymes ahead hun xxx

Take a test. If it’s positive this may not be straight forward you need to see a doctor ASAP.

I cant tell ur a rather spiteful character. No need for it is there. You should check yourself!!!!

My previous response was to mouthbreathingrage

Its a little early to take a test yet. But will do. I knew i was pregnant with my last two way before i tested. Im very in tune with my body. Thanks for all ur responses. But reading the harsh comments of some who are just rude and insensitive just not worth my time being part of such a community online.

Hope you're off to buy a test op!

@Amoss, I'm sorry. Being indoors for so long is evidently getting to me and everything is a drama. I wish you all the best in your miracle pregnancy, I'm also very in tune to these things and I bet it's twins!

Jesus wept 🙄

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Ftlog covid isolation brings them all out of the woodwork doesn't it.

@ViciousJackdaw you are rotten but v funny.

OP on the off chance you are for real, i hope everything works out as you want it to. Are you sure your brand new BF will be happy with a baby so soon into the relationship - or were you just looking for a baby anywhere you could get one?

You should check yourself!!!!

Yeah!! Mouth breathing rage, you should CHECK YOURSELF!

@DontBiteTheBoobThatFeedsYou, I have been checked, CHECKED! Jood good above, these truly are testie times.

Well, I know of an urban legend that says a woman got pregnant with one of those in and the baby came out holding the IUD. Probably stuff and nonsense, but...

Its astounding how the grammar and punctuation improves when op is furious 😂