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Getting pregnant whilst on the non hormonal IUD

55 replies

Amoss · 01/04/2020 09:46

Hi All, this past week and half i have had endless pregnancy symptoms. I had the non hormonal IUD inserted in december. I just started seeing my new man after getting out of a 15YEAR MARRIAGE! Our relationship has been incredible on all levels. We were looking to a future together but if im pregnant which im 85%certain i am. Its gna just make things really messy and complicated. I mean i wd keep the baby. But i dont think Hes ready for that yet. But i feel sometimes we cant.plan our lives how we want it and God puts his spell on it. I have two young children-boys. Before the whole lock down i was looing for a place to move into to start my new life.....im now stuck here in this house i co own with my ex who is living at his parents. Plan was for him to remortgage,buy me out and.i move on etc. Now i got this on my hands. I seriously dont know what im gna do. Just to add i may have to hide my baby bump until its out and say im fostering!!!! I wanted more children.....my ex didnt. And this i believe is fate. Do i continue the pregnancy without his approval? It will be difficult for me. But i believe its meant to be.

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dontdisturbmenow · 01/04/2020 13:32

Are you sure you had the IUD inserted or is it what you told your boyfriend? Because with you clearly desperate for a baby, certain that you are pregnant, and so delighted at the prospect, it tells me that maybe, it could be a little lie for everyone to get you what you want?

Otherwise, I really don't get how you could be so certain after only 1 week and a few days.

PennyMissilesAndWombPies · 01/04/2020 13:50

Bonkers, I think we might all need a rest from MN and some very essential daily exercise.

ChardonnaysPetDragon · 01/04/2020 13:52

OMG hun, your boy like totally knows. He will be blessed with a little duster.

user1473878824 · 01/04/2020 14:06

OP what does your horoscope say?

FizzyGreenWater · 01/04/2020 18:08

OP was the IUD inserted in your boyf or you? Bcs it needs to be in you to work. Yep amazing, your grammar and punctuation has suddenly been blessed anew by GOd and now it is working, hallellujah

sunfloweryy · 01/04/2020 21:09

So much for ‘Be Kind’ eh? Jesus Christ.

OP ignore dickwads on the internet who think they are hilarious and just take a test as soon as you can.

AnneLovesGilbert · 01/04/2020 21:17

So much for ‘Be Kind’ eh?

Did I miss that becoming a law? What’s kind about calling people “dickwads”! Check YOURself.

OP, pee on a bloody stick and until then chill your beans love.

AvoidingRealHumans · 01/04/2020 21:33

I think you're massively over thinking this, worrying about covering up your bump etc..
You need to take a test and then go from there.

oncemorewithfeeling99 · 01/04/2020 21:36

Whatever happens, wishing you all the best. Don’t hide the baby though or ask children to be secretive. That will just bring you heartache. Confront the situation head on.

sunfloweryy · 01/04/2020 21:40

Calling out dickwads for being dickwads is slightly different to berating and mocking a random stranger on the internet but okay @AnneLovesGilbert Wink That’s I told.

Amoss · 02/04/2020 10:13

Cheeky AF @ funnylittlefloozie. Im on the IUD silly. This is def not what i wanted and was planning a child in a few years time ince i was settled. Too much going on now. It will be very difficult to fo through this pregnancy at this moment but i believe in fate and i dont do abortions.so its tuff shit. Im so glad im not judgmental or devious. Im happy with myself. So u guys keep trying bring me down cz ul never suceed.

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Amoss · 02/04/2020 10:14

Thanks for ur appology mouthbreathing rage.

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Amoss · 02/04/2020 10:17

Btw. Im not worried about being able to have children. So finding anyone to give me a baby isnt on my agenda. Im a good woman with plenty going for myself. I have plenty of options. Theres always adoption if i cdnt conceive. But i can. Im just the nurturing type. And i dont need man to have a baby!!!

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Amoss · 02/04/2020 10:18

Yesterday i was feeling nauseous. More symptoms.

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HerMajBishop · 02/04/2020 10:21

Bizarre thread!

Amoss · 02/04/2020 10:31

@dontdisturbmenow how could you be so small minded. Go educate yourself then talk.
How do i know? Cz its my body and i know it really well. Ive been pregnant twice before and knew within a few days. I was right both times.
How do u delete this thread cz some people cant behave. Childish AF and your supposed to be grown ass Fs

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LoopyLoux · 02/04/2020 10:34

Take a test first, eh. I think it's unusual to fall pregnant on a coil, though.

thatwouldbeanecumenicalmatter · 02/04/2020 10:40

Twins Grin

Qwerty543 · 02/04/2020 10:46

We're allowed to swear on here OP. And we don't really do text speak. Could you speak English perhaps or is it more pregnancy symptoms, ie baby brain?

funnylittlefloozie · 02/04/2020 10:54

Personally Im glad that I am viewed as judgemental and devious, especially if it means I'm also smart enough not to get myself in calf to a man I barely know.

dontdisturbmenow · 02/04/2020 10:58

I'm entitled to not believe you. You do come across as very desperate.

whiplashy · 02/04/2020 10:58

😬

user1473878824 · 02/04/2020 11:04

Your planning to hide a baby bump for months, and giving birth, then say you’ve fostered a newborn baby because you still own a house with your ex. And you haven’t even taken a test. But we’re childish.

MouthBreathingRage · 02/04/2020 11:28

@Amoss, my pleasure to apologise. It was almost as sincere as my suggestion its going to be twins!

wibblewobblejiggle · 02/04/2020 12:11

I was an IUD baby. I using come out holding it. In facet the thing managed to stay in even after the placenta left. My poor mother had to give birth, recover a bit and then have a D&C.

I can assure you I am no gift from God 😂😂