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Am I reading too much into this?

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only3left · 31/03/2020 22:47

Is this appropriate ?
Colleague and I have a bit of history. Over texting / complementing/ chemistry etc.

He is now in a relationship for the last two years . They are in lockdown together so maybe he is a little bored .
He has been texting me daily asking if we can go out together to a weekend festival / drinking session/ to my home ( I'm
Single)!when lock down is over.

We have a strong texting history which I pulled back on when he got together with his girl. No smut but suggestive. When I speak of other men, he tones it down and wished me the best and looks forward to me meeting someone deserving of
Me ..
He is back To texting daily . I am non commital and reply now and again. Aibu to think there is more than an innocent explanation for this renewed interest or is he bored as hell and full of rubbish.

OP posts:
JKScot4 · 01/04/2020 00:22

You’re getting these responses because 3 pages of comments in and you’re still acting innocent despite EVERY single pp saying it IS inappropriate.

only3left · 01/04/2020 00:28

Ok.
Thanks

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EmeraldShamrock · 01/04/2020 00:30

He may be a friend or he may is using you at the moment. Have you ever went to a gig before in your hometown or is he fantasizing.
Whatever his motive, is it worth finding out.

only3left · 01/04/2020 00:33

No we haven't gone to a specific gig that we talk about yet. We eat out . We go to the pub. Nothing inappropriate has ever happened.
He has suggested some events.

OP posts:
only3left · 01/04/2020 00:34

We have spoken
About specific gigs but have never been able to get it together to go. Yet .

OP posts:
EmeraldShamrock · 01/04/2020 00:39

but have never been able to get it together to go. Yet Sorry to disappoint you but it definitely sounds like a day dream plan. I've been making lists in my head of all the people I should have spent time with or never carried out a plan with before the pandemic.
You clearly have feelings for him, for that reason let the friendship go.

WhatTiggersDoBest · 01/04/2020 01:02

From your updates it honestly sounds like you want to be the other woman.
You are asking women for advice, many of whom have had their lives ruined by the other woman.
The only sensible course of action is to not go near this man, whatever chemistry you think you have. He's spoken for.

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