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To ask are you having more sex because of lockdown?

362 replies

Gre8scott · 31/03/2020 09:18

Just that. People keep saying there will be a baby boom in 9months and I wondered is it true? Are people really having more sex cause they are stuck at home??

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Fluffybutter · 31/03/2020 17:54

Probably about the same amount ,I’d say

pandarific · 31/03/2020 17:57

But god no we're not having sex! Both wfh, toddler, no childcare... when?!

Alwaysoverthinkingit34 · 31/03/2020 17:58

No. I’m currently enraged that my partner is taking over my animal crossing game so he’s not getting laid now.

Chasingsquirrels · 31/03/2020 18:01

Unfortunately not, as I don't live with the bloke I am currently (not) seeing - am looking forward to when we do see each other again though.

BatleyTownswomensGuild · 31/03/2020 18:04

Er no. Funnily enough trying to wfh and home-educate a six year old with SEND, stop the house from descending into a giant rubbish tip and trying to keep tabs on the wellbeing of various elderly relatives in isolation has pretty much has pretty much been a bucket of water to the libido.

Maybe if I could stay awake beyond 8pm....

Thisismyhappyface · 31/03/2020 18:05

@notalwaysalondoner surely you are not still TTC whilst this is going on?!

LockdownLucy · 31/03/2020 18:06

Not really. My partners in Bolton and I'm in Dudley. Won't see him for who knows how long.

Aderyn19 · 31/03/2020 18:06

God, no. Am too stressed and surrounded by teens. All I have the energy for is watching Torchwood on iPlayer!

ALemonyPea · 31/03/2020 18:08

No I'm having none as I have two teenagers and a preteen who are always awake at different times of each other. DH and I have an excellent sex life when they're at school (when our work shifts allow).

Scruffyoak · 31/03/2020 18:10

No. Less. He is annoying me.

BanKittenHeels · 31/03/2020 18:10

Nope, my husband is living in a hotel for work purposes.
Also, I don’t think I’ve ever felt less sexual in my life.

Watermelontea · 31/03/2020 18:12

I’d much rather sleep at the moment as I’m not getting much thanks to our 5 month old, but we make time for it almost as often as we did.
Plus with our eldest not going to nursery 2 days a week anymore, she’s missing her friends and change of scenery, so we’re all getting snippy and that doesn’t tend to put you in the mood.

I miss my solo outings to the supermarket. Sad

madcatladyforever · 31/03/2020 18:14

Same amount of sex as before.......none haha.

Therunecaster · 31/03/2020 18:16

Yes! lucky me!

hels71 · 31/03/2020 18:17

Sadly not. DD has been sharing our bed for the last three weeks because she is scared ....

Sakura54 · 31/03/2020 18:20

Yes, when DS goes for his nap. I was already pregnant before lockdown though, so not part of the baby boom!

Chickoletta · 31/03/2020 18:20

To all of those people surprised that posters are still TTC - if they conceive now, they won’t be giving birth until next January - surely we’re not expecting to be still in a crisis by then?
My baby is due in November and I’m not really worried about it. Maybe I should be... so far the only changes I can see to my maternity care are a few appointments taking place over the phone rather than in person, which is fine.

TheSandman · 31/03/2020 18:21

Hah! as if!

catfeets · 31/03/2020 18:24

I only gave birth a few weeks ago so my DP hasn't a chance of getting anywhere near me for a long time (probably years Grin).
Even if everything was normal, he's at work most of the time doing long shifts (emergency services) so we wouldn't have the time/opportunity anyway.

bespokepaininthearse · 31/03/2020 18:26

Yep definitely more!!

MrsToothyBitch · 31/03/2020 18:27

If I was locked in with new bf then yes, probably lots of sex. Until we ran out of condoms, anyway.

No desire to contribute to baby boom, my IUD is nearly due replacement and it's v early days so we've not been tested with a view to removing the condoms yet.

LakieLady · 31/03/2020 18:27

Good god, no. We're both WFH and being under the same roof 24/7 is quite a passion killer.

If I fancied a shag atm, I'd probably proposition the postman.

LynseyLou1982 · 31/03/2020 18:31

Nah I'm already 10 weeks pregnant with number 2 and number 1 is keeping us both busy. By the time he's in bed I'm ready to go myself. Once a week if that at the moment.

izzywizzygood · 31/03/2020 18:36

Yes! Tons - it's amazing!

JayWayney · 31/03/2020 18:53

Haha, yes but only by phone!! In a new relationship and 100 miles apart,