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Banning Easter eggs a step too far

320 replies

VivienScott · 30/03/2020 14:30

I’ve just read that some officials are cracking down on shops selling Easter eggs as it’s non-essential. Isn’t this all going a bit far now? Easter eggs aren’t essential but a chocolate bar is? Feels like some people are letting a minuscule bit of power go straight to their heads.
www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-52090441

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TheProdigalKittensReturn · 30/03/2020 22:23

Lightbulbs? Are people whose die meant to sit in the dark then?

Cremebrule · 30/03/2020 22:30

It is getting ridiculous. So many freedoms have been curtailed. Why on earth would it be sensible to stop shops selling the Easter egg stocks they already have and make life slightly shitter for children? It is worrying that some police forces are enforcing things that aren’t the law.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 30/03/2020 22:43

That's my issue. Each police force should not be making up their own rules and calling them the law, and there should be consequences for the ones that try to do so.

ViveLEntenteCordiale · 30/03/2020 23:53

I consider the rules to be stricter here in France - we have to fill in a form if we step off the edge of our property - so to go to the mail box or the communal bins (both less than 50 yards away). There are police out and about checking forms, and all the borders are closed to most people. But I have never seen a policeman checking the contents of anyone's shopping bags, or suggestions in the press/social media about what is essential. So banning Easter eggs seems a bit extreme. Most of us go once a week and fill our trollies with normal food, including chocolate and booze. There are attempts to clamp down on people going to get bread every day but they are French so I don't fancy the authorities' chances. In my humble opinion some people in the U.K. have gone a bit mad, and it hasn't even been a week!

I agree though that special trips for Easter eggs are not really 'in the spirit'. We had to go to a second shop for milk this week but got some extras there so didn't only buy one thing. Certain things are more essential than others - I happily got by with no bacon or mushrooms in week 1 but milk is very necessary in this house!

Fivefourthree · 31/03/2020 07:49

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Fivefourthree · 31/03/2020 07:50

Thank you for the link @chomalungma

PollockBollocks · 31/03/2020 07:53

chomalungma thanks the link! Cake

JudyCoolibar · 31/03/2020 10:16

According to this Twitter feed from a police officer in Devon and Cornwall, large numbers of officers were tasked to spend the day stopping cars and interrogating their drivers last week. What a waste of police time.

Alsohuman · 31/03/2020 10:21

Totally. Even the Torygraph is highly critical this morning. Some police forces haven’t issued a single fine, Lancashire is boasting about the number it’s issued - 123 apparently.

steppemum · 31/03/2020 10:29

Asda easter eggs are currently massively reduced.

We have a delivery coming today, and I've ordered a load of eggs.

I know it isn't 'essential' but it doesn't involve an extra trip to the shop, and to us, easter does matter.

MarginalGain · 31/03/2020 10:32

Torygraph can't seem to decide which side it's on at the moment. It's a mixed up world.

Imafarmerama · 31/03/2020 10:37

JudyCoolibar I can also confirm that Devon and Cornwall Police have been stopping people “who don’t look like key workers” on their way to work..... nutbags

MarginalGain · 31/03/2020 10:39

JudyCoolibar I can also confirm that Devon and Cornwall Police have been stopping people “who don’t look like key workers” on their way to work..... nutbags

They are obviously a law unto themselves at the moment.

What could possibly go wrong, though, eh?

Imafarmerama · 31/03/2020 10:50

I guess the problem is when Devon and Cornwall Police don’t talk nicely - they yell and use angry language.

It can be quite frightening when you’ve done nothing wrong.

HistoryHeroes · 31/03/2020 11:28

Don't think they need to ban Easter eggs. More people who think it's essential to go into a shop just to get one. Throw it into your bulk of shopping and then don't come back for a long time.

CatOnLaptop · 31/03/2020 12:12

I'm a police officer. I obviously can't speak for all officers or all police forces anymore than anyone on here can speak for all mumsnet, but seeing some of the posts here has prompted me to post.
The vast majority of us have loved ones and lives beyond the police and worry about all this just as much as the next person. I worry every day that I am bringing this virus into my home and potentially infecting my family. I have elderly relatives with underlying health conditions. The police are part of the same society as you, not separate to it.
For some officers, these worries can affect behaviour. Like all professions we have a majority who are fair and competent, some who are exceptionally good, some who are pretty poor, and a few bad apples. The latter are now very rare, but this crisis will no doubt expose them. Incompetence will show up now too, perhaps as over-zealousness.
My own force has a dedicated so-called 'snitch' line. This wasn't introduced (as the Daily Mail suggests) to encourage people to report. Instead it was to keep 999 and 101 lines clear, so we don't miss losing the higher immediate risk jobs (like domestics) among all the calls about neighbours ignoring the rules.
From the moment the lockdown was brought in and new powers mentioned, my own force has taken a very clear line about policing by consent, the importance of public confidence and using engagement to persuade people rather than enforcement.
Sometimes we have no choice. This is a profession where we regularly deal with some less publicly-minded individuals, some 'bad,' some simply vulnerable. Drug dealers are still out and about (we can't arrest for that without evidence but they're frequently breaching lockdown). Some people think it's funny just to go out and cough over people. We're getting a lot of calls about that and initially had to deal with it with no PPE whatsoever. We still only have very limited supplies of PPE. Worries about that will contribute.
I know some officers will get it wrong and I've cringed with the rest of you seeing some of those examples. I believe that when we get it wrong we should admit to it, to keep public confidence. Sadly, we will probably continue to get it wrong from time to time as police officers are human too, but I honestly do not believe it's as common as people think, despite the prevalence of tabloid stories and social media outpourings.
None of the officers I work with would search someone's shopping for 'non-essential' goods (there's no new power to do this for a start). None of the officers I work with would issue a fine for a 'non-essential' trip (even assuming we could prove that) unless that individual has come to our attention for regularly flouting lockdown.
We've been told to get out there and provide a community presence. This is supposed to be for reassurance and guidance more than anything. This doesn't mean we have nothing better to do. My own team of around 15 officers averages 8 investigations per officer which they have to progress, alongside responding to 999/101 calls (approximately 40 at any given time) and now new covid19 responsibilities.
My force continues to prioritise crimes with the greatest threat level (domestics are therefore at the top of the list). No officer is going to be enforcing lockdown above answering a domestic and if they did they would be rightly be disciplined for it.
I love my job. I love my family, friends and my community. They're all part of the same thing. I'm not 'other' to you. I don't have the answers and don't seek to make excuses, but the police are not all power-hungry jobsworths who don't care about real crime. Many officers are risking their health right now to keep people safe.

Iwalkinmyclothing · 31/03/2020 12:39

the police are not all power-hungry jobsworths who don't care about real crime.

Most police officers I know are thoroughly decent people who do a very challenging job with far better humour than I'd manage.

The ones who do misuse their power and harass rather than police probably stand out all the more because of that.

I'm sure heads like yours will prevail OP. Partly because you'd have to be daft not to realise that the quickest way to get people to really rebel is to indulge in petty tyrannies, but mostly because I think there are far more sensible and decent coppers out there than jobsworth wankers and you will tell those of your colleagues who fall into the latter group to stop being such dicks.

Imafarmerama · 31/03/2020 12:47

CatOnLaptop thank you for your post. Flowers I personally found it quite reassuring!

Alsohuman · 31/03/2020 12:52

@CatOnLaptop, thank you for all you and your colleagues do. It seems to be coming from the top of some forces, hence the massive disparity in fines between them. Ours is in the sane and rational bracket - no stopping people, no road closures, no shopping searches. People here are taking the precautions sensibly so it’s hard to see if police behaviour is the cause or the effect.

1forsorrow · 31/03/2020 12:54

CatOnLaptop, I worked in police admin for many years, my husband is a retired police officer. I know lots of lovely officers and retired officers. I've also worked with some nasty racist sexist officers. Two of them served time in prison so you can see they were the extreme. The sad thing is that meeting 10 nice reasonable officers is wiped out by the actions of the one bad apple.

mooboy · 31/03/2020 12:57

Lovely post @CatOnLaptop - and admitting that you get it wrong sometimes is a strength - it makes me trust more - other public sector professions don't do enough of that, imo.

MarshaBradyo · 31/03/2020 12:58

I’m glad you posted Cat

SchadenfreudePersonified · 31/03/2020 14:08

Yes, let's ban everything that isn't cabbage and the national loaf.

And also ban all scientific research which isn't aimed at developing national cabbage loaf!

SchadenfreudePersonified · 31/03/2020 14:10

catonalaptop

Lovely post - and thank you

Flowers