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To think he could get in trouble for this?

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inthedarkx · 28/03/2020 12:41

My husband has applied for divorce I got the letter this morning. He had selected the 'separated for 2 years option' which is lies. We haven't been separated for 2 years yet. He's a liar. He left me for another woman. We have no proper contact or financial arrangements in place for the children because he's been difficult throughout and now he's sent for divorce and lied about the date we separated ! Surely this is wrong to divorce. Of course I want to divorce this prick but he's only doing it as the woman he left me for is pressuring him to marry her and why does he just get to walk away without any proper arrangements in place as he knows I have no money for representation or court orders.
I've Been made out to be this bad guy by him and his gf and now this divorce makes me look like the bad guy even more and it's all lies. He left me and came back to me to male out marriage work but then left me again for the same woman and now he gets to LIE!!!

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Theresnobslikeshowb · 29/03/2020 20:17

I agree with Windyatthebeach

WelcomeToShootingStars · 29/03/2020 22:59

How long have you actually been separated, as there's a bit of a difference between 6 months and 23 months if he's claiming 2 years. And I'm not sure what the stance is if he left then tried to make it work.

In order for you to use adultery as a grounds for divorce, it has to have been discovered in the last 6 months I think, and the relationship ended because of it.

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