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Being jealous of my partner?

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Bazingaaaaa · 28/03/2020 12:27

Just a few things I'm jealous of! This also happened when I was working and he'd sort ds dinner and bed that was it!
He doesn't work, I do but off due to isolation
He goes to bed whenever he wants 3/4am gets up whenever he wants 1/2pm
Never gets up for our 21 mo ds.. When he does he moans his arse off and bangs about so I'm awake anyway
Wanders away with headphones on almost 24/7 (if he could)

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FudgeBrownie2019 · 29/03/2020 11:44

Don't be jealous, be disgusted. The person you met and fell in love with is not the person you're now living with. He's changed, and you don't find the new him attractive in any way. So do the right thing for yourself (and for him) and end things.

It doesn't have to be immediate; make one change every day til you reach the point where you can say "you need to leave". Don't tell him you're doing it, don't ask his opinion or permission. Just make steps towards freedom.

combatbarbie · 29/03/2020 11:45

I think your confusing the term with resentment.... Seriously he sounds like a cock lodger.

Thesnacklady · 29/03/2020 12:44

Don’t really understand why you are jealous?

Does he make your life better/easier or harder? If the latter - leave him. You won’t be losing much.

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