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My Partner Is A Selfish Twit!!

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Moodymagpie · 19/03/2020 09:22

DD aged 6, DD aged 2 and myself are in lock down due to new coughs and temperatures. We also have a 6 month old DD here.... My partner refuses to self isolate and has gone to work!

He said nothing was wrong with him so hes fine to work. Refuses to come home.. I told him about the government restrictions and how we should ALL be isolating. Apparently it doesn't apply to him.

Selfish fucker!

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Northernwarrior · 20/03/2020 18:22

What a cunt. I assume he cheated but if not sorry.

NotStayingIn · 20/03/2020 18:26

Oh fuck me here we go. I lost all respect for him 5 years ago. Oh... yeah... but still went on to have two more kids with him. Jesus. What is the point of these posts? If you stay with an idiot you can’t really be surprised he keeps doing stupid things.

Moodymagpie · 21/03/2020 14:59

I lost respect because we lost our baby boy at 32 weeks gestation... He, in his grief, decided to paint over the whole thing as though it never happened... I lost respect because our son deserved the right to be remembered... He chose not to because its his way of coping.

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Moodymagpie · 21/03/2020 15:01

I never said or lead anyone to believe I lost respect because he's an idiot. Despite the fact in this current situation he is. Thanks for the judgemental posts. You should all be ashamed.

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EKGEMS · 21/03/2020 16:29

Bless you-you and the twit you're married to have been through so very much. I'm so sorry for your loss of your sweet baby. I sincerely hope you and your babies get well soon. I've no advice as my family except one sister are taking this nightmare seriously. (She's been our partying and at the shore while also living with our parents over 70)

ninox3 · 21/03/2020 16:36

When you post on these things I do think you have to expect the worst in reply's ! People aren't always kind an give you the support you need but I'd lock him out for 2 weeks whilst you all isolate and get rid of the virus. Saves him bringing it back an forth into the house. It is dicks like him passing it around but what can you do. You e tried everything an no one cares ?

People handle grief differently and that can clearly hurt sometimes but you've managed to get through it so you can get through anything just he needs to see the severity of this situation !
I am so so sorry for your loss. No one deserves that but your beautiful baby boy is in a better place probably having a lot more fun then us right now all stuck in isolation! Think on the up
Hope your all okay and have lots of calpol! We're running low and everywhere has sold out. I want to cry lol xx

MrsXx4 · 21/03/2020 21:15

@ninox3 I don’t think it’s a stranger on the internets place to say that someone’s baby is probably in a better place. That’s horrendous and cold. I’m pretty sure @Moodymagpie would think the best place for her boy would be here with her, isolation or not 🙄

Moody I hope you feel better. It’s a testing time. You don’t need the added stress of a partner that has no respect for the guidelines.

Moodymagpie · 21/03/2020 23:38

Thank you for the kind replies. It may have been 5 years ago. I still feel as though it were yesterday I lost him. I know he's with me though, I am thankful for the beautiful girls I have and, God willing, they stay strong and healthy... Same goes for my partner, who may be a total Twit during this awful tine... But hey ho. He's a loving Twit... Whose learned his lesson after reading through this thread... Grin

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