Try to help my flatmate where I can (found them the current place we share, organise food deliveries, let them have my food if I'm not going to be in), for the sake of harmonious household relations - the standard!!
We have a weekly cleaner coming tomorrow and my room is a bit untidy - nothing major but unmade (clean!) bed, papers on desk, (paper) rubbish in plastic bag in room. I was supposed to be in beforehand to tidy but won't be home in time. I asked if they could do me a favour and shove the papers in a drawer, pop the rubbish outside the room, quickly make the bed. Would take all of 2 mins and could do on facetime just so I could quickly see the situation
They have flat-out refused and said they are standing up for themselves / being assertive... This is despite previously agreeing. I have said I'd be grateful, would have brought them chocolate or similar to say thanks and obviously would do the same for them if needed.
Aibu?