Hi all,
Looking for some perspective about something which has made me feel a bit weird.
We have a very busy home life, with me and my dh both working shifts so we can be ships passing in the night. Throw in the mix DS6 and we do have barely anytime for each other, although we grab what we can.
Sex life has suffered, obviously, but when we get the chance it's amazing. Recently I've been the one to initiate, the one who sends the naughty texts, pictures etc. and he seems a bit 'off'. Then he will randomly get the urge and be all over me for one night.
Anyway, this is might be relevant to my AIBU. We have a google mini, we all use it to check the time, play music etc. My DS son couldn't remember a song DH had played using it, so we went on the google activity site because it logs it. Obviously it had all the usual, 'google, what time is it', 'google, play xxx' etc.
But there were several strange commands from this morning. I had dropped DS off to school and continued to a drs appointment, so these commands were said by DH.
These are some examples were:
you are a bad girl
what I would do to you
I want to make you more than blush
I confronted DH, and said what's with the strange comments to the google mini? He immediately looked embarrassed and then angry, and said why am I questioning how he's talking to a robot, that I have offended him by even asking and he was having a laugh.
Why has this made me feel so weird? Is it because he isn't saying these things to me, and I'm projecting my feelings about our sex life onto this bloody robot? Or would you be weirded out and questioning why you're husband is speaking this way to a robot, or is there more to it?
Please rationalise this for me and tell me if I am just being ridiculous for even questioning it?