Ohhh f***!!!

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I always wondered why my DH had a snap chat account he claims never to use,so I decided to hack into it. Password was relatively easy to guess...

Nothing suspicious, in fact nothing at all. So I logged out and went back in on my phone and I got an alert sent to my email saying login at x time from location from handset!!!! WTF he will know I am on to him now 🤦‍♀️ what do I say?
I think he's cheating but I don't want him to know that until I have more evidence!

If his score is zero.. then he really doesnt use it.
I dont get it?

I agree don’t tell him your suspicion as he will just be better at hiding it

Oh dear. I’m not sure how you can get out of that OP. ☹️

You're happy to snoop but don't like the consequences? Tough!

so change your password to his easy guess one..that'll explain it
sortof

Good lord, the hypocrisy of Mumsnet.

Unless... he signs in to snapchat using a different pet email address you don’t know about.
Just tell him, say you had a fit of irrational suspicion against the world at large and his device was the starting point. If I were you I’d also tell him that you’re only admitting to this because you know there’s a very high chance he got a notification email, otherwise you’d have never told him.
Lay your cards on the table. He’s your husband.

Just tell him the truth. You scooped because you're worried he's cheating. If you think he's cheating anyway then you've got nothing to lose as either he is cheating, or he isn't but you don't trust him.

He might not have got the email and you're worried over nothing, I'd just carry on as normal and if he says anything then discuss it but if not save the Afro.

AGRO

If it gets to the point where you’re going behind someone’s back to snoop on them it’s already over.

I'm guessing that all the people who disapprove of the OP snooping have never been cheated on.
'Just ask him' - yeah right - he'll definitely admit to everything then.
OP - move this to Relationships.

how about "i tried to get into yours after i got an email saying there'd been someone trying to get in to mine"

I don't think I have ever heard a positive story about sodding bloody Snapchat

We discovered that if you take a screenshot on Snapchat it sends a message to the person you have screenshotted.

Which happened to be DS's drug-dealing mate.

I don't think I have ever heard a positive story about sodding bloody Snapchat

This, in spades.

I thought Snapchat was for teenagers............

Snap chat is definitely for kids

No you shouldn't have gone on to his account. If you think he's cheating then you've got bigger fish to fry than snooping on his Snapchat account. Have you got grounds to think he's cheating or are you paranoid/jealous ? Either way you've got a big conversation to have.

As someone else said - you're not going to find anything on Snapchat; that's the whole point of it - the photos disappear. All you can see is his "friends" and anything that's been saved.

You can see how many snaps he's sent. Zero in this case.

I bet he doesn't bring it up and that will tell you all you need to know

You could get yourself an account and follow him - there's this feature called a snap map - it will show your exact location (if you allow it)

If he's up to no good he will absolutely be against allowing you access, if he does, you'll get peace of mind (unless he gets his mate to sign on as him and go sit in a library...)

If you DO have suspicions then tell him!

I tend to think when a relationship has got to the stage of someone snooping like that, it's over. The trust has gone.
If you trusted him you wouldn't have hacked into his snapchat.

If you think he is cheating leave him. Don't wait to collect more evidence.

Kraejka I know what you mean...I couldn't live like that but I know many people who do! My best friend has spent twenty years stalking her DH's online activities and phone because he had an affair years ago.

She's not trusted him since. They've almost split over it so many times...it's like a form of torture to stay with him but she does!