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To not pay a crafter for a bespoke made item

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wherethewildrosesgrow · 02/03/2020 18:46

I’ve wanted a really nice bread bin for ages, fed up of my old rusty one leaving marks all over the kitchen worktop, saw a nice one on the internet, lovely design, but it wasn’t big enough, I needed a double/two loaf model.
Decided to splash out and get one made (wooden), spent ages sending pics/designs to local crafter, lots didn’t answer, or didn’t come back with a price after initially showing interest in taking on the project, or some couldn’t make it for nearly a year.
After a while I found a lovely new to crafting lady at an event, her work was amazing, and she quoted me £70 for a reclaimed solid oak bread bin, based on some pics I sent her, and included a rough sketch with measurements (internal& external), but I did say the size could altered slightly if she felt it would look more proportional, as long as it fitted two loaves (one on top of each other, with internal shelf), I even sent her a pic with the tape measure in front of the loaves I use for clarity...she sent me a sketch back, and I asked her to go ahead with the make.
Shes in the final stages, and today she’s sent me an update with pics.
Problem...it isn’t anything like the sketches either of us sent, she’s added the word BREAD in red to the front of it, which I never asked for, and wasn’t included in any of the pics or sketches.
It hasn’t got an internal shelf, the loaves look as if they are to fit side by side, so it’s going to take up far more valuable work surface space, and my kitchen isn’t big.
Im unsure if it’s even going to fit two loaves in...but it’s very hard to judge from a pic.
AND she has told me she’s made it out of pallet wood instead of the reclaimed oak, as she felt it looked more rustic...I did say initially I wanted rustic...but she gave me a samples of wood to chose from, and pallet wood is not the agreed oak.
EEEK.
Would I be really really unreasonable to say ‘I don’t want it, it’s not what we agreed’
I feel awful, as she new to crafting, and she’s lovely....but it, in my eyes anyway, it looks awful, I don’t feel I could use it elsewhere even.
This is my Christmas birthday and Mother’s Day present all in one, I feel like somebody like me should never even of attempted to have something handmade, I should of stuck to one for a fiver from B&M.
She’s on holiday til the weekend, so I don’t want to message her immediately, and spoil things for her

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Flutteringsatlast · 03/03/2020 07:28

Told you it would turn into a bun fight...

msmith501 · 03/03/2020 07:30

@WarmestRegards - but where's the heart the OP wanted? I'd knock a £1 off for that to be fair.

PhilCornwall1 · 03/03/2020 07:31

@WarmestRegards well that's a couple of minutes of your life you won't get back Smile

BeatItBarry · 03/03/2020 07:32

Oh OP. I'm in bed feeling like utter crap and this thread has had me in stitches. I'm sorry but thank you! 'Baguette about it' nearly killed me off.

I certainly wouldn't part with any dough though.

I need pictures of the final product. My life depends on it.

KenDodd · 03/03/2020 07:33

Why do people have bread bins? Just keep your bread in a cupboard.

wallflowersunited · 03/03/2020 07:34

Warmestregards that must have been a real pain to make.

I can't see the picture though

crispysausagerolls · 03/03/2020 07:35

We need the fb page so we can storm in and defend your honour OP

DropYourSword · 03/03/2020 07:35

A bread bin is a mini cupboard though.

A mini cupboard made of pallets apparently. That I NEED TO SEE a picture of!

TheClaws · 03/03/2020 07:36

OhLookHeKickedTheBall “...the first thing you need to do this morning when you get to work is meet with your manager and HR if possible or necessary. They need to be aware ASAP of the impact this has had or is likely to on your coworkers as well as you ...”

Grin this is really getting out of hand. It’s a breadbox.

BeatItBarry · 03/03/2020 07:38

What a loaf of hassle over a bread bin!

BeatItBarry · 03/03/2020 07:42

A bread bin is a mini cupboard that is intended for bread but usually ends up storing all the post that you don't know if it's safe to throw in the bin or not. In our house anyway.

TreeTopTim · 03/03/2020 07:45

She sounds batshit crazy. You agreed a design, materials etc, she sent you a photo of a completely different one, you sent a reply asking if there was a mix up and instead of saying yes or no and negotiating with you she blocks you and badmouths you on social media and gets her friends to harass you. Good job you didn't give her any money

PineappleDanish · 03/03/2020 07:46

The only time we have done anything like this was commissioning a local furniture maker to make a table for the kitchen, it needed to be a very specific size. It wasn't cheap but the service was brilliant. Endless emails back and forward, measurements, we visited his workshop to see examples of what he'd done before, he showed us where he stored the wood, talked about where he sourced it from... he was fabulous. A real craftsman and so professional.

Sounds like you've been bitten OP by one of those hobby crafters which gives others a bad name. Not taking their "business" seriously and cobbling things together with whatever she can get free at the time.

DobbyTheHouseElk · 03/03/2020 07:47

They sound unhinged. Wow. Calling your work emergency number has to be harassment. Not to mention the GDPR breach.

Bakedbrie · 03/03/2020 07:48

She’s gone way off piste from the brief.

colinsleftnipple · 03/03/2020 07:49

You had me when I saw she'd written 'bread' on it in red. I wouldn't want the word in any colour but red has to be the worst surely!?

It's not what you wanted. She can sell the finished product on at a fair to someone who will like it.

BeatItBarry · 03/03/2020 07:54

You had me when I saw she'd written 'bread' on it in red

And when I noticed that OPs drawings say 'BREAD' 😂😂 Sorry OP I know that isn't what you meant, it's actually quite clear, but it did make me chuckle.

Missfritter · 03/03/2020 07:56

please please post a pic, blank out her water mark though.

sunshineANDsweetpeas · 03/03/2020 07:58

I think I'd ask her firstly if she's sent you enthralled right pictures. If she says yes I'd definitely pull her up on it. It's not as agreed, the red writing, the size, shape, functionality and materials. Actually it's about as far wrong as you could get.

Sounds like she's taken on board all you've said and then promptly disregarded it and done what she thought was best.

sunshineANDsweetpeas · 03/03/2020 07:58

The not enthralled Grin

londonrach · 03/03/2020 08:01

Interesting to read your update op....sounds like her parter did the right thing leaving. Seriously report this to the police as contacting your work number is wrong. I love a good bread bin. It keeps the better. Managing with a £2 cheap one for now but plan to upgrade so following everyone's links . Yanbu

MrsElijahMikaelson1 · 03/03/2020 08:07

🥖 🍞 🥯 🧁 🥪

colinsleftnipple · 03/03/2020 08:08

Sorry should the RTFT!

I think at the very least she's breaking some kind of GDPR by sharing your details.

MrMeSeeks · 03/03/2020 08:17

Go to the police. This woman can’t do this

Brenna24 · 03/03/2020 08:28

Blimey. How incredibly unporfessional and aggressive. If it doesn't calm down over today I would go to the police about the harassment and contact trading standards. I am sorry OP that you tried to treat yourself and have received this treatment in return.

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