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We're still here hand holding gojettergirl

106 replies

Duckduckduck123 · 29/02/2020 18:03

Just that really, we're still here with you @gojettergirl Flowers

We're still here hand holding gojettergirl
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BecauseReasons · 01/03/2020 01:29

I'm so, so, so sorry, OP. Words seem so inadequate. Thinking of you all and sending so much love. Flowers

Strokethefurrywall · 01/03/2020 01:49

There are no words that can express my heartfelt sorrow at your loss.

I can only pray that all these messages from around the world, give you some comfort in your darkest times.

Grief is the loneliest path to walk, a journey that nobody ever wants to take.

Please know that there are many many strangers near and far, standing beside you as you begin the cruelest journey of them all. I hope you can feel our prayers for you and your family.

I'm so, so sorry for the loss of your beloved son 💞

HavenDilemma · 01/03/2020 01:59

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I saw a GoJetter magazine earlier today and thought of your boy. I will do whenever I see GoJetters anywhere, forevermore 🖤Thanks

wondertime · 01/03/2020 03:26

You are both held in my thoughts too 💐

pollywobble · 01/03/2020 04:59

With his comfy bedding and his toys from you, your chocolate eyed boy will be well wrapped up in your love. The casket sounds a wonderful idea. Your little family is in my thoughts. Are the in laws behaving themselves? Xx

TheDuchessofDukeStreet · 01/03/2020 05:33

I lit a candle in the cathedral for you and yours. 💐

lightlypoached · 01/03/2020 07:55

@GoJetterGirl having read the posts on both threads the thing that struck me most was love. You opened up a new wavelength that allowed hundreds of people to surround you, your family and your precious boy in a cloud of love right when you all needed it most. He died knowing that the world was kind, warm and that people loved him. You did that- the best thing a mum could ever have done. In the dark days that you will Inevitably now be in, remember that and let it cushion you too.

You did the best thing a mum could ever have done for her beautiful boy, right when he needed it most.

Thanks
pollywobble · 18/03/2020 00:35

How are you doing @GoJetterGirl ?

GoJetterGirl · 18/03/2020 06:48

Morning all, I wish I could say I was doing brilliantly, but, the house is now too quiet, and I miss GoJetterBoy so much, as does JoJetterToddler and GoJetterHusband, I’m being well supported and had my second appointment with my counsellor yesterday, just trying to make sense of it all- she told me my head knows GiJetterBoy died, but my heart hasn’t accepted it yet, and probably won’t for a very long time. Thank you to everyone for being there for me when I need you most, you all helped, you really did Star

neverdoingthatagain100 · 18/03/2020 06:54

Good morning
I'm still thinking about you and your family and your lovely boy. Great to hear from you. 🌻🌻🌻

Rhapsodyinpurple · 18/03/2020 06:57

Thinking of you all. You wrapped your little boy in love. These are very early days in uncharted waters and heading for a foreign land. There will still be many ups and downs and times when you feel guilty for laughing etc. Take care of yourself and your family.

nettie434 · 18/03/2020 07:09

Hope the counsellor visits help Gojettergirl. Of course the house feels too quiet. Even those of us who only ‘know’ you here got such a sense of Gojetterboy’s presence. Thinking of you and your family. Two of the things that my friend who lost her baby boy told me were that grief is such a roller coaster - some days will be better or worse than others - and that there is no protocol for this situation, you just get on with what seems right for you Flowers

Cottagepieandpeas · 18/03/2020 07:37

Thinking of you and your family 🌼

Yabadee · 18/03/2020 07:44

@lightlypoached what a beautiful post

Sending love to the gojetter family ❤️

Jimmers · 18/03/2020 07:53

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Janicejaniceahmfallin · 18/03/2020 14:08

Still here for you, GoJetterGirl. Sending much love to you and your family, and the hope that, for now, some days are at least a bit easier than others. Your little boy will be remembered by many more people than you will ever know Flowers

MumW · 18/03/2020 14:13

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MinesaPinot · 18/03/2020 14:15

Thinking of you all FlowersFlowersFlowers

pussycatinboots · 18/03/2020 15:24

We have broad shoulders.
We can take many tears.
Bear

pollywobble · 19/03/2020 00:38

It's good to hear from you...Of course it's too quiet and the whole family miss your boy, he sounded such a vibrant little bundle of life xx

Neome · 19/03/2020 00:47

Sending you love, I was thinking of you all earlier, so glad to see this thread and find you to say so xx

barefootcook · 19/03/2020 01:12

Thinking of you from New Zealand😕

Immunitysucks · 19/03/2020 03:27

Every time I go to say something it never quite seems enough 💐

So very very sorry. Much love xxxx

GoJetterGirl · 21/03/2020 18:33

Absolutely heartbroken right now, today, I was told by the venue holding GoJetterBoys wake that they will not be able to hold it for us. My poor little boy won’t get the send off he deserves 😭

Writersblock2 · 21/03/2020 19:21

I’m so sorry. It must be so difficult to deal with Corona related issues on top of everything else you have gone through.