To go off someone who doesn't flush after themselves

[Deadcatbounce]

Finding myself grossed out by this.

Spent the weekend with a new guy at his place , Saturday morning I went into his bathroom to find fresh pebbledashing so I tipped a load of bleach down there, Sunday morning a turd and toilet paper.

Aibu to be totally grossed out and gone right off him

Most UTIs are caused by e coli bacteria from....poop

Eeewwww the dirty pig!

That’s disgusting, and just plain bloody lazy!

This would 100% be a deal breaker for me and I would have to tell him why too!

Scruffy tramp!

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@Deadcatbounce YANBU.

That's disgusting. And you're a new girlfriend presumably this is him on best behaviour. Gross.

Yes BlueHarry I was, not sure how it could get worse but that was best behaviour

I meant if he asks why hes dumped are you gonna tell him its because hes gross ?

No, I'm not going to communicate with him again. Don't want to discuss toilet training with a 40 something year old man !

My ex in laws got a water meter and from that point banned anyone from flushing if it was just a wee. Which basically announced the fact that someone had been for a poo which wasn’t awkward at all

Sorry, to answer the AIBU, this suggests he is lazy and slobby and unhygienic in other ways so it’d be a no from me

Not surprised the ex wife left him

Thinking about it, he didn't shower on the Saturday I was there , and I left Sunday morning and he went straight to a family do

Did you have sex with him after toilet incident no.1 + no shower on Saturday night ??? Bleurghhhh

What an effing skank!
Who doesn't flush especially after a 💩!
He definitely doesn't wash his hands and he doesn't shower 🤢 GET RID!

Did he look dirty? Surely someone with these hygiene levels would look unkempt and greasy 😭🤢 hope you didn't put your head down there

Disgusting

100 % Yanbu vote. Get rid asap.

Now I've heard everything.