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I make more money but he invalidates my work

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thepassenger99 · 17/02/2020 15:09

Hello!

First of all I'd like to say I am not seeking approval for the work I do,I understand there's a big divide between people being comfortable with sex workers and others not and that's fine.

As the start suggests I am a sex worker. Not prostitution but dominatrix work. I make good money.

My concern is my partner seems to invalidate this all the time like only his job counts yet he will happily reap the benefits of my income. So I earn more than him and he is supportive in the sense of being happy with the job I do but he is constantly asking "when will you get a REAL job" or "you should probably consider working full time and doing this as a side job" and even "my job is obviously harder because I am out from 9-5 all day you don't" (he does not have a manual labour job)

But the work I do is full time I have to do my own photo shoots,editing,website design,sessions etc etc Not only that I love my work I don't want to do anything else atm.

Iv tried explaining this but it leads to an argument about how I could be making even more money doing both...
Not sure how to handle it or if the relationship is worth continuing if he cannot accept this is what I want to do.

Thank you for reading x

OP posts:
messolini9 · 18/02/2020 12:36

Dump him, & carry on with the job you love.

He's a manipulative shit who wants to live off your money while negging & controlling you. What do YOU gain from having a relationship with this pimp?

MerryDeath · 18/02/2020 12:56

what a twat. why would you want to be in that relationship when it sounds like you can easily be independent.

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