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Dr White's looped sanitary towels

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florriepeck · 12/02/2020 15:01

I didn't know these were still a thing!
DM used to buy these for me when I first started my periods in the 70s.
Saw some today on the shelf in my local chemist while I was hanging around waiting for my prescription to be dispensed.
I was tempted to buy some: remember them being so soft and comfortable .Didn't see any of those belts to wear with them, though.
Set me wondering: does anyone use looped towels these days?
Must be a market for them if they're on sale.

OP posts:
SchadenfreudePersonified · 12/02/2020 19:40

Our chemist used to have these already wrapped in brown paper in the back room.

You used to go in and say "Could I speak to a lady assistant, please?" and she would come gliding like a wraith from the back and take you off to the end of the counter where a whispered conversation would take place while anybody else around (including the male pharmacist) would pretend that you were both invisible and inaudible.

Then she would disappear into the stockroom and reappear with the Parcel Of Shame which you would carry (cheeks blazing) out, preferably under your coat, not meeting anyone's eye.

When she was on holiday and you had to speak to Him, it was worse. Lips drawn into a thin line . . . not looking at you . . . taking your money without touching your tainted female flesh . . .

Envy
millimollimandi · 12/02/2020 19:46

Oh god yes! I ended up needing one when I was at school and being given a Dr Whites towel and 2 safety pins - oh the JOY! I always used to pin the pad to my knickers after that, no more belts for me! I used the Nikini ones for a short while but I swear they rustled when you walked!

dwum · 12/02/2020 19:47

@jaffacake2 !!!!

I never used them but I do use washable pads and panty liners.
They are shaped just like disposable pads but have press studs to hold them in place. I highly recommend for anyone who is trying to reduce plastic consumption.

dwum · 12/02/2020 19:51

@Puzzledandpissedoff and I just pop them in with everything else. Never even gave it a second thought until now. (I still don't get it! My DC often have little accidents and i just wash that with everything else as well, am I missing something? Everything gets cleaned and rinsed in the machine.)

MilkTrayLimeBarrel · 12/02/2020 19:52

Apart from all the other unwelcome symptoms one gets, the menopause is the most wonderful thing in life! Such freedom - like when you were a child!

Quadrangle · 12/02/2020 20:08

Our school gave them out with 2 safety pins too.

Hoik · 12/02/2020 20:11

Victorians and earlier didn't wear pants. I suppose the wealthy didn't have to do much and didn't need to be very active. Poorer women would have been under nourished and constantly pregnant so wouldn't have had the problem.

Even hundreds of years ago girls would have started periods by the age of 16 I expect

The average age for starting periods in Victorian times was 14 for lower classes and 13 for upper classes owing to the differences in nutrition.

Going way back into history, the Romans used pads made from wool and the Ancient Egyptians had tampons made from papyrus that had been softened and then woven around a stick. Not sure how effective either would have been.

In the days when rags were used, for example the 1800s, they would have been pinned front and back to the underskirt that was worn closest to the skin, sort of like a hammock for your fanny. The underskirts themselves would have helped absorb any leakage from the rags with several layers of skirts of varying fabrics being worn as standard.

Some women would have menstruated less frequently than we do now due to differences in nutrition, untreated/unrecognised gynaecological problems, breastfeeding, and pregnancy although it is a myth to think that women were constantly pregnant. At various points in history it was considered unseemly to constantly be pregnant as it was a sign of not being able to control ones base urges. In 1830 the average family size was six children but by 1900 this had dropped to 3.5 children.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 12/02/2020 20:28

Thanks to everyone who's explained about the reusable fabric pads - thinking about it, I guess rinsing them out with cold water makes perfect sense

After all it's what I did with clothing when suffering from awful flooding around menopause - too often I resembled a crime scene, and somehow I'd have felt a bit icky putting the results in my machine without rinsing first

TheMemoryLingers · 12/02/2020 21:35

Fallen down a bit of a rabbit hole on this topic! Blush

Tampons were available in England in the 1940s as this article shows, with an advert from 1942:

www.theguardian.com/society/2020/feb/11/tampon-wars-the-battle-to-overthrow-the-tampax-empire

If you want to read something scary, Google 'Rely Tampons' Shock which fortunately never made it to the UK.

SarahTancredi · 12/02/2020 22:42

YikesShock

hothothothot · 12/02/2020 22:43

These are still available to buy in Boots in my small market town. It really amazes me they sell.

Sooverthemill · 13/02/2020 07:39

Googled no washing hair during period ( I was born in 1958 and my mum wouldn't let me bath or wash hair!) and found this handy round up of superstitions/discrimination against women menstruating. Gosh how men hate women

Ponoka7 · 13/02/2020 07:56

The discrimination around periods was continually fuelled by religion.

When I gave birth in 1985, my older relatives were shocked that I was allowed in the kitchen without being 'churched'.

It is another stick to beat women with.

LittleSweet · 13/02/2020 08:16

I remember my mum got me pants with a layer of plastic in them. I think she got them from Boots. They made a rustling sound when I walked. This would be late 80s. What made a difference was wings on the side and the leak proof top.

SarahTancredi · 13/02/2020 09:09

Bloody hell soover

How the hell did they come up with that lot Shock

CigarsofthePharoahs · 13/02/2020 09:35

I tried Dr Whites for a while as mine were so blinking heavy an ordinary thin towel wouldn't cut it.
In the end my GP agreed to put me on the pill as I'd missed too much school due to the pain. I could at least regulate them so I could deal with the heaviest days on a weekend.
Now, thanks to Mumsnet I have become a mooncup bore. Wish I could have managed one as a teenager but I found tampons painful at that age.

ColourMyDreams · 13/02/2020 09:53

I had to wear them when I first started my periods, they were horrible.
One minute I was wearing just knickers as usual and the next I had this belt round my waist and a bulky pad between my legs. It was as comfortable as sitting on a brick. Horrible.
I desperately wanted to try my mum's tampons, but when I asked her she looked at me in horror and said they were something only married women wore because they ' broke your virginity'😂
At least a while later she started buying kotex stick on pads for me. Still bulky, but at least I didn't have to faff about with a belt.
Thank god better stuff came along before my daughters began theirs.

labazsisgoingmad · 13/02/2020 10:08

loops with safety pins to start with then rustly plastic pants with poppers to hold them in
i was reading some 1950s magazines yesterday and it said about Dr Whites available from chemists and drapers!
surely a draper was a clothes shop?
can see it now a nice frilly blouse please and a pack of Dr Whites!

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 13/02/2020 10:36

I started in 83 and looped pads were everywhere still. If you started at school the office gave you a tiny box which you opened and a meshy sort of towel spring to life and was so thick it would do you all day. It was looped and came with two tiny safety pins for your knickers.

My mum was hell bent on making me wear Dr Whites,God knows why,looking back it was really weird. I used to get off the school bus a stop early and go to the supermarket and use my pocket money to buy a box of Vespre towels. I remember a friend saying to me "Why isn't your mum buying you these?" I felt so isolated it was awful.

yes I had those, I had the belt from about 78 until Vespre came along a few years later, revolutionary. I’ve never forgotten that name

Remember the smell? Eau de loo cleanerGrin

lemontreebird · 13/02/2020 10:39

I always thought the loops were for your legs. But then it wouldn't work very well...

EngagedAgain · 13/02/2020 11:02

Still, on the plus side presumably they were natural fibre, cotton mesh and cotton wool I think inside. Seem to remember them being quite soft. As a non tampon user, whilst modern towels are much better (especially with wings) apart from heavy days they would make me sore. Thankfully after having periods for nearly 45 years those days are over 😆

EngagedAgain · 13/02/2020 11:09

@Iabazisgoingmad yes, I suppose it's a bit like men being offered something for the weekend at the barbers. When I first started my mum just thrust a towel or two in my hand, with a belt I think, and that was it. Had to get my own from then on, although I was 15 a late starter. Worst thing getting them from the chemist with a man serving.

SerenDippitty · 13/02/2020 11:15

surely a draper was a clothes shop?

I thought a draper sold bedding, curtains, towels, tea towels etc.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 13/02/2020 11:35

I thought a draper sold bedding, curtains, towels, tea towels etc.

They did (still do, probably ...) but I guess small drapers' shops were most often visited by women, so may have been a "natural" place to stock them if the same shopping area didn't contain a chemist?

MilkTrayLimeBarrel · 13/02/2020 11:46

The shop where we got them was a little haberdashery shop - sold wool, ribbons, buttons, tea towels, material, etc. Lilia and Dr White's were 'behind the counter' so you had to actually ask for them. I hated having to go to get them for my mother!