Thoughts on husband meeting a woman directly after walking out.

[bigbluemug]

Is it bs?
Says he met her on a night out the eeekend after he told me that he didn't love me anymore and wanted out.
They are together six months now , still going strong.
Lies? I heard it on the street .

WTF @ChrissieKeller61how do you 'lose' a car. Fucking hell.

Met someone the weekend he left

Yeah, right

Or he just picked the first one who came along. Either way, you have dodged a bullet.

Did your ex have a gambling problem, Chrissie? Seems like that's where the car's likely to have gone. UNfuckingbelievable - but the police won't do anything about it if you willingly lent it to him.

Tip for you there, OP - don't let him use your car because you have fuck all comeback on it if he decides to keep it.

And yeah, it's hugely much more likely that he was already either seeing her or had put out feelers in her direction that had received positive responses.

My ex-fiancé did this too - claimed he had no intention of having a relationship with this woman from work the day he left me, but went straight to her house and never left. Yeah ok. Load of absolute horseshit, as I found out later from a friend of his (who'd gone through the same with his own fiancée, he'd been on the receiving end of it) - he'd had his eye on her for a while, they'd become close, then he stayed out til 2am one night just "talking" (ha, ok then) and then he was gone to her. Happily for me, she kept him, freeing me up to have a much nicer life! (No kids involved there).

The whole thing sounds like the Script to me. Unless he’s so irresistible he’s likely to have pulled straight away . 💐OP

@bigbluemug

Any reason you have for wanting to know is a valid one. You’ve presumably devoted many years of your life to someone who has treated you badly.