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Do you enjoy smoking?

68 replies

Fresh1five · 06/02/2020 22:21

Aibu to enjoy smoking?

OP posts:
winterchills · 07/02/2020 20:14

I love smoking but really wish I could stop. I enjoy every cigarette but know I need to stop

Lucy40ishere · 07/02/2020 21:02

I love it too. I still enjoy the odd sneaky one now & again. For me it was a great stress reliever & I know they say in the long term it makes you more anxious but I never found that.

bravotango · 07/02/2020 21:03

I have smoked in 4 years but love smoking. Love it. Miss it!

meow1989 · 07/02/2020 21:19

I'm not a smoker. I sometimes have some of DH vape if I'm drinking. On a holiday recently without him I had my first (second third and forth!) Cigarette ever because I didnt have a vape. I did enjoy it but nicotine really hits me - I couldn't be a smoker as I wiuldnt be able to drive with it!

NemophilistRebel · 07/02/2020 21:22

I don’t smoke anymore but I miss it sometimes.

I loved that it gave me a regular break
I loved that it relaxed me

FagAsh · 07/02/2020 21:31

I love washing my hair because it’s getting greasy not stinky
I love not beating myself up
Etc
Etc
Etc
But.
Did I love 💔 it? Yep. Every single one!

Catapillarsruletheworld · 07/02/2020 21:34

I love smoking. I only smoke when I’m out having a drink, or occasionally if I see a particular friend for coffee these days, but I always love it.

I wish it was good for you.

Hsldl · 07/02/2020 21:35

This exact same thread including verbatim replies was posted recently. I asked if OP was a journalist. Bizaare

Hsldl · 07/02/2020 21:36

@waterlego this has 100% been posted before, the follow up replies are exactly the same too, about morning cravings and chain smoking. Either some weird troll or a journo

Hsldl · 07/02/2020 21:40

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3798127-Do-you-enjoy-smoking

And this one posted last month, weirdly similar

Miljea · 07/02/2020 22:37

MN apparently didn't delete- unless this gets zapped the second I press 'send'.

I would hope that someone telling it like it is, that the first hit with a fag feels great, must be deleted- recognises that that is a form of censorship. I believe that first hit does feel amazing, otherwise thousands, if not millions- wouldn't do it.

I imagine the first sort of coke feels great, too. Or the numbness of alcohol. Or the invincibility of speed.

Shutting down debate and discussion of that reality, is sort of censorship.

We humans have always sought 'highs'. The vast majority have harmful side-effects.

It's just that smoking has very bad press.

Alcohol hasn't caught up, yet.

However, they're both legal and make ££££ for us.

FTR, I don't smoke, but I do drink. That stiff Pinot at 6.30pm after work won't be replaced by a 10k run.

Soz.

Like that fag at 10.30am might 'refresh'. 😀

Hsldl · 07/02/2020 23:33

@Miljea I'm a smoker. I love smoking I have no intentions of stopping. Doesn't change the fact this person posts the same exact thread every month under different names for some reason, and MN are rightfully Hmm about it

GulliBelle · 08/02/2020 00:38

Don't, whatever you do, Google 'smoking fetish'

whiplashy · 08/02/2020 01:43

perv

PickleMyPepper · 08/02/2020 17:34

There's a smoking troll now too? Confused

caperberries · 08/02/2020 17:47

I looooved smoking so much. It was practically the best thing in my life at one point. And I smoked for almost 20 years. That first blissful drag in the morning, sitting with a coffee on a sunny step in the garden. The camaraderie outside workplaces in London, making new friends, lighting up each other’s cigarettes. Smoking late into the night, smoking stresses away, lazy cigarettes while reading a book, stretched out across the lawn..,

Have to say though, eventually I quit and now I love NOT smoking even more than I loved smoking. I ran a marathon in under 4 hours! I felt like a gazelle! Not smoking, I feel so much more vibrant and alive.

But I did love smoking, there’s no denying it.

goldenorbspider · 08/02/2020 17:53

Ex smoker 7 years on still get cravings. Thoroughly enjoyed it

icannotremember · 08/02/2020 18:08

Yes, I do. I mean, I'm not stupid enough but to realise I am thoroughly addicted to nicotine, but I do genuinely enjoy smoking. I always did, I think that's my problem. Our first smoke as kids, my friends were getting dizzy and nauseous and I was having a "come to mama" moment.

My dad has been hospitalised twice for copd recently and is quitting his 56 year smoking habit so I have bought a soddibg vape to make the switch. But resentfully and grumpily.

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