YABVU to start a thread with the title you have when you haven’t even had a 1st payment yet!
So you don’t even know yet if it will work for you!
“I'm hoping this doesn't turn into a benefits bashing thread” aye right! Why use that thread title then?
If you want real life experiences there are numerous mn threads, several Facebook groups, twitter pages and other sources of info. Not to mention plain googling.
I’m still on legacy benefits for the moment, I’ve been advised to remain on them for as long as possible.
I have recently been moved from DLA to pip which was a palaver but so far working ok.
I’ve friends and family on UC and none of them are better off on it.
A few aren’t worse off than they were but the majority are worse off to varying degrees and have had several major headaches with it.
It’s an inherently sexist and punitive system.
The changes to the welfare system including UC have directly and indirectly lead to many deaths. How many we don’t know for sure because every time the govt has been asked they’ve stonewalled.
“I think the point of the OP's post is that she is in fact on UC. Why is her 'lived experience' so much less valid than your relative's” because she doesn’t yet HAVE the lived experience of this! She’s never been on benefits before she’s not even had ONE payment yet!
I’ve been on benefits of some kind now for 17 years
initially as an unemployed single mum in immediate aftermath of split from dds dad my exh - income support, housing & council tax benefit, child tax credit
then as a full time working single mum - working, child & childcare tax credit, small amount of housing benefit & council tax benefit
Then as a student single mum - child & childcare tax credit, housing benefit & council tax benefit, income support in summer holidays
Then again working full time
Then as a sick/disabled unemployed single mum - housing benefit & council tax benefit, child tax credit, esa, DLA
Then as sick/disabled living alone - housing benefit & council tax benefit, esa, pip. I’m now subject to the bedroom tax since dd moved out and not only am I not well enough to deal with moving house. There are very few 1 bed properties available anyway. Luckily as I’m in Scotland this govt covers that issue via local council discretionary housing payments but I have to reapply every 3 months.
In addition some benefits are devolved issues and from 1 April will be moved to Scots govt administration.
At no point has it been “easy” it’s meant working to a tight budget all that time, occasionally incurring debt or struggling to pay bills or even going without basics so dds were covered, being absolutely on the ball with when payments are due in and how much they should be and contacting dwp as soon as you notice an issue, spending hours on the phone or in appointments because THEY messed up not me!
Whenever there’s been a problem it’s been due to a mistake their end not mine. I’ve always been scrupulously honest with every piece of info I’ve given them, I’ve willingly accepted them into my home because they don’t believe that I’m single, allowing them to investigate me, allowed them to know the deeply personal and very embarrassing details of my health issues even though that’s at times meant such things being discussed quite publicly. Any mistake that’s worked in my favour was clawed back pretty much immediately and usually in full. Any mistake that’s worked in their favour has taken MONTHS to sort out - funny that!
“My experience has been good” you have pretty much zero experience to speak of as yet!
“how is my childminder not having availability being a lifestyle choice?! I'd bloody love to go back full time!” Well for starters did you not check childcare availability before ttc? Consider waiting until you COULD afford nursery fees?
What does “can’t afford them” really mean anyway? Do you mean it would leave you seriously worse off? Or like many parents is it simply a case that for a short time it means you’d be “breaking even” with the costs of childcare being roughly equal to what you’d be earning?
Having children and when IS a choice.
And I’d love to know where you live where ALL the nurseries and cm are full! I’ve never come across that.