Whenever anyone posts on here about a man who's been tricked into fathering a child because his partner lied about being on the pill, people say he should have used a condom, contraception isn't only the woman's responsibility, etc.
However, if a woman posted that she dislikes condoms, but her long-term partner insists on using them because he doesn't trust that she's really on the pill, there would be a chorus of "Leave the bastard! How dare he accuse you of lying about contraception?"
If a woman posted that her long-term partner agrees to go without condoms on the condition that she lets him stand over her and watch every time she takes her pill, I guarantee she'd be told she was in an abusive relationship.
Which is it? What should men in long-term relationships do if their partner doesn't want to use a condom?