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Neighbour's glass extension

68 replies

Blueredemption · 29/01/2020 15:33

My home backs onto several other houses including a detached house which is at almost right angles, so I have a clear view into their garden from my rear upstairs bedroom window, as do the rest of the houses in my terraced row.

The owners of this house have spent the best part of last year building a large extension which was eventually to become their kitchen/living area.

This meant a lot of disruption, removal of rear garden panels into a shared car park, our car being blocked in by tradesmen's vehicles etc and noise, lots of it, even at weekends. Plus lots of mess. Not so much as a 'sorry' note through the door or a 'thanks for being patient with all the disruption'.

I didn't say a word, just politely asked the tradesmen to move their vans so I could go to work.

However, once they had completed the works I just happened to be glancing out of my bedroom window to check what the cats were up in the garden to when I saw the father in this extension. It is fully glass-walled with no blinds/curtains at all, so basically like a giant gold fish bowl. He saw me looking and stared then gestured in an aggressive manner with his whole body and arms as if to say "yes??" so I quickly looked away.

Now I am a busy person with a full-time job and am not in the habit of staring out of my bedroom window, but I feel intimidated by this tw*t to not even look out. The only time I go near the window is to hang washing on the radiator underneath or to open and close curtains, perish the thought that the family there might think I'm some sort of voyeur and even mildly interested in their daily lives!

Why build something so transparent and have TV, living area etc and then not put up any sort of privacy?

Am I being unreasonable to think that people who build such extensions compromise their privacy to a degree?

OP posts:
windycuntryside · 30/01/2020 11:33

Wave.

Reginabambina · 30/01/2020 11:37

I have a house where you can look into our living spaces. If it bothered me I’d get shutters instead of being rude.

MrsStrangerThing · 30/01/2020 11:40

Wow he is a complete idiot. How on earth did he not forsee this issue??

He should just be glad he doesn't live on Alphabet Road, the curtain twitchers there would be reporting on what he was eating for breakfast and watching on TV everyday Grin
(Referring to current long parking thread......)

ChristmasSweet · 30/01/2020 11:46

I'd mix some of these suggestions together. Get a cardboard cut out of a person, and get a telescope. Grin

punknarwhal · 30/01/2020 12:03

Get your cardboard cut out, make it of a police man for extra effectiveness

Frothybothie · 30/01/2020 12:11

Its a shame we dont have video rental shops as they always used to have huge displays of the stars of the latest films.

MIL was very concerned about a group of men in the video shop window - it was Young Guns (if only!) (showing her age!)

wowfudge · 30/01/2020 12:22

I like the idea of a cardboard cut out and waving. Encourage all your family members to wave as they walk past. Stick a sign in your window facing out that says, "Hello!"

cjt110 · 30/01/2020 12:23

@Convict225 I don't know why but this has me snorting into my soup!

OP, we live 4 floors up and for a long time (pre child) didn't have any curtains because our window is a 3m drop Envy < not envy. We were also know to wander about in the buff in the morning etc when getting ready and I always used to think if someone was nosy enough to be looking, they can't complain if they got an eyeful.

This guy ought to take a leaf out of that book if he's eseentially stuck himself in a goldfish bowl for you all to watch. Lets just hope he doesn't do naked yoga or somesuch.

Abraid2 · 30/01/2020 12:25

I hate the light pollution on these glass boxes. I like to look at the stars, not be dazzled by your pendant lights and LEDs. Get some blinds and let the rest of us have some respite.

Taylr1733637 · 30/01/2020 13:11

So you're not allowed to look out of your window at him, but he's allowed to look through his at you!

Give him a big wave next time Grin

Penners99 · 30/01/2020 13:18

I second the chair and binoculars but would add CCTV cameras (dummy ones of course) to add to his outrage

cjt110 · 30/01/2020 14:35

Start holding up message boards with "HELLO!" and other musing scrawled on for him to read!

SistersOfPercy · 30/01/2020 14:43

How about a scrolling sign?

Drum2018 · 30/01/2020 14:47

If your neighbouring houses can also see in to the new extension, you should organise to all be upstairs in your respective houses at the same time some evening and all wave down at him. Do this for a week and he'll surely end up getting some form of privacy sorted.

FizzyGreenWater · 30/01/2020 15:07

Yes. A message board, or two, saying HELLO MR GLASS BOX ARE YOU NICE AND WARM?

then a second one you hold up when he makes angry replies saying

WELL WHY DIDN'T YOU USE ONE WAY GLASS THEN YOU NIBLINK!!!

Frothybothie · 30/01/2020 15:11

Could some birdseed (or frozen sausage) land on his glass roof so he has wee little birds looking in on him too? Dropped by a very big bird you understand - they do that you know. Well, they may need help with the frozen sausage.

hibiscuswater · 30/01/2020 22:40

You could get some dead mice and he'll soon have large buzzards on his roof.

NomNomNomNom · 04/02/2020 09:10

I used to have a house with large windows and no front garden so everyone walking down the street would obviously look into the sitting room. It was also unfortunate in that there was a toilet facing the street and dc1 would happily run in to take a dump and leave the door wide open! I put blinds up pretty quickly! This guy is a fool!

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