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to bin this 'friend'?

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WheresMyChocolate · 27/01/2020 15:33

DS (6) has a new 'friend'. I'm not impressed. AIBU if I bin this 'friend'?

New 'friend' is called Piney and is a lump of pineapple. All Piney's siblings got eaten, but Piney is special. Piney sleeps in the fridge but likes to watch DS playing games on his xbox. DS like to talk to him.
Last night DS cried because Piney couldn't sleep in his bed with him. Piney has been here for almost a week now. Do I bin him?

Bear in mind that DS is autistic and his actual bestie emigrated last month and he's really missing him. Piney is a rebound friend.

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Italiangreyhound · 27/01/2020 17:40

Oh OP you know that is poignant but also hopeful. He is taking control.

I saw this and loved it! Jellycat Amuseable Pineapple Soother

I hope you do find a new friend for your son.

How about a simple pet. A pet stick insect or snails that can live in a tank or something?

I know you will talk to your child about what he needs from the friend and engage further.

My autistic dd kept bringing home snails and I got frustrated and asked why and she said 'because I want some friends.' She did already have friends but clearly a snail was within her control and maybe there is more to Piney than just a friends, a friend he can control.

Have you watched Toy Story 4 with Sporkie the spoon fork? Might continue the conversation off, good luck. XX

Italiangreyhound · 27/01/2020 17:42

Do you know Miranda's Fruit Friends/

RuffleCrow · 27/01/2020 17:43

My ds has asd and is the same age. I would be replacing Piney every five days or so. Jellycat option would induce a meltdown.

FloydWasACat · 27/01/2020 17:58

Wickedwitchofthewest789 your post nearly made me cry. I think I am hormonal too (43)

TomeOfSomething · 27/01/2020 18:15

My son had a Macdonalds chip that was his friend

He dropped him on the floor of the car, and wailed for weeks, "I miss chip"

mumsiedarlingrevolta · 27/01/2020 18:26

@PrincessHoneysuckle her one brother had Red Ted and Bluey-
other one had has Special Teddy.

At least they are descriptive Grin

Craftycorvid · 27/01/2020 18:34

Aw! Sending empathy to your DS as I once befriended a sugar mouse and was devastated to learn it was for eating not keeping. I can recall eating it whilst weeping. Grin

ScrimshawTheSecond · 27/01/2020 18:52

That's really sweet. Please don't bin Piney!

WheresMyChocolate · 28/01/2020 12:19

DH just told me that DS wouldn't eat Piney because he could see his face. That's how he came into being. Can't see it myself, although he is a bit dried up now.

Say hello to Piney!

to bin this 'friend'?
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OvenGlovesWillTearUsApart · 28/01/2020 12:45

OMG that jellycat pineapple is adorable!

He also might enjoy a pine cone.

Or a porcupin... porcupine pin cushion from the 1970s (nostalgic and ridiculous episode of Bagpuss):

m.youtube.com/watch?v=vvoXTDXQ0cQ

OvenGlovesWillTearUsApart · 28/01/2020 12:47

Hello Piney. Will Piney be my boyfriend? (My friend is too embarrassed to ask for me.)

iklboo · 28/01/2020 12:47

I can see Piney's face - two vertical slit eyes and a little smiley mouth.

Greysparkles · 28/01/2020 12:49

Buy him a pineapple plant!

Rinsefirst · 28/01/2020 13:40

Would it make it easier if Piney’s siblings were stored in freezer so you have a new Piney ever day?

YasssKween · 28/01/2020 13:46

Oh this is just gorgeous, what a lovely little fella. Will you share a picture of Piney 2.0 when he resurrects as a soft toy? You sound like a fab mum Smile

MummyFriend · 28/01/2020 16:16

OP, if you're encouraging an attachment to the Jellycat pineapple then make sure you get several and switch them around regularly so they wear at the same rate. We do this with an owl we got from Ikea and it works well.

sosaidzarathustra · 30/01/2020 09:10

OK at 3. Weird at 6

WeBuiltCisCityOnSexistRoles · 30/01/2020 09:39

@sosaidzarathustra RTFT Hmm

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