So I previous posted about how my MIL hosts about 25 for christmas and because she is getting tired of it, there are now hints we should take over (tho we live about six hours away from everyone so they would all have to stay too as they would never stay in a hotel as that would cost money).
Anyway, my SIL who does live near us (but wouldn't have the space for the above - and would be too tight to do it anyway) is a key holder for the house alarm as she is close enough at the moment. It came up in conversation today to which she expressed surprise that that was the reason why we had given it to her (we do not have a key for her place) as she thought it was more for if we wanted something "doing" if we were away. When i said no it was for emergencies so was she happy to do it as we were happy that she had it in this case (tho we would reassess if they moved away which they may be doing). Anyway, she read the message and didn't reply which to me is a little rude and implies she is not happy but leaving it all a bit unfinished. AIBU or would you think that? Or do i need a head wobble?