So this morning I had a shower, quick blast of my hair with a hairdryer but didn’t “finish” my hair. Dh was outside and I started hoovering.
He came in looked at me and said “frizzy”. I stopped and asked him what he’d said, he repeated that my hair was frizzy. I quite politely said that wasn’t a nice thing to say and he got all stroppy. Accused me of being over sensitive and that it wasn’t an insult to tell someone a factual thing.
I said he wouldn’t say that to a female colleague and he said he would. I said I’m amazed any of his colleagues talk to him and he said that unlike me all his colleagues have a sense of humour. He stormed off.
I’ve been out for the afternoon and came back. As far as I was concerned it was all forgotten about. But he’s still being arsey, is barely talking to me and has said he now won’t fit a car part which needs replacing in my engine which he had said he was going to do this afternoon.
He’s like a stroppy fucking toddler. I know it’s all quite minor but I’m fed up of him belittling me and then making out I’m over reacting and it’s all just banter. He tends to be like this if there’s something he’s doing as a favour to me (ie the car thing) and I think he does it as an excuse to get out of doing it (though he offered). He does it frequently if we’re meant to be visiting my family and then he refuses to come and visit, so he will needle me on purpose until I’m slightly sharp back to him. Then he blows it out of all proportion so he has an excuse not to do something.
I’m now stuck with a car part I don’t think I can fit. So will end up paying for a car part I can’t use....and will have to take the car to a garage as it does need this new part. I’m tempted to take my car engine to bits tomorrow because it’s blocking his car in and then neither of us will be able to go anywhere until he sorts it!