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Mums/Moms on MN!

99 replies

TheFuckingDogs · 15/01/2020 16:21

I’m curious as to the amount of “moms” as opposed to mums or mams I see on MN posts. I’m vaguely aware there’s somewhere in the U.K. where people say mom and obviously a certain amount of American posters but seems to be tonnes of posts which have mom instead of mum/mam! Don’t want this to be some raging debate over what is correct just genuinely curious - make this a fun thread guys!

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19lottie82 · 15/01/2020 16:22

They say Mom in Birmingham and the surrounding areas too.

maggiecate · 15/01/2020 16:23

They say mom in Birmingham apparently so that’s a fairly big population

TeetotalKoala · 15/01/2020 16:24

It's mom in the Midlands too.

I find mam tends to be parts of South Wales and the North East, and mum everywhere else, but with different pronunciations of it. For example my Lancashire bred cousin says mum very differently to how I (Londoner since I was 11) do.

Biancadelrioisback · 15/01/2020 16:24

It's mam where I'm from so mom sounds strange in my accent. But my friends from Birmingham say mom and it sounds good!

TheFuckingDogs · 15/01/2020 16:25

Ah! Didn’t realise it was Birmingham, yep that’s a big area

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TeetotalKoala · 15/01/2020 16:25

No just Birmingham. My DH is most vehemently NOT a Brummie (he's about 20 miles outside of Birmingham) and he says mom as does everyone else there.

ItchySeveredFoot · 15/01/2020 16:26

My north east dad says mom. I'm also north east but my southern mother preferred mum. Most of my friends said mam. So 3 different ways in the same small village.

Drabarni · 15/01/2020 16:26

it's mum or mam where I come from. NW.

Camomila · 15/01/2020 16:26

DH says/writes 'mom' to his mum - he's Filipino so there's a big American influence there.

chellochello · 15/01/2020 16:26

North East England it's Mam unless you're posh then it's Mum

TheFuckingDogs · 15/01/2020 16:27

Yes was thinking people who learn English primarily through American teachings will probably also use mom

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RhodaCamel · 15/01/2020 16:27

Dd always calls me mom, it’s because she’s always watching bloody Youtubers!

BlueEyedFloozy · 15/01/2020 16:29

We're in Scotland - Mum here.

No Maws funnily enough 😁

Chocolatemice · 15/01/2020 16:29

Staffordshire it seems to be mom too.

HunterHearstHelmsley · 15/01/2020 16:29

I'm also not a Brummie (black country). I say mom but type mum

Curiosity101 · 15/01/2020 16:30

In south yorkshire it's mum or mam depending on where you're from. I think it's a little bit about whether you speak 'correctly' (posh) or not. I always had it drummed into me that it was mum and not mom or mam Hmm makes me think my parents needed better hobbies Grin

I'm now in a different part of the country but will be bringing my LO up to say mum or mummy... which might make him the odd one out at school Grin

GaaaaarlicBread · 15/01/2020 16:31

I’m in derbyshire and say Mum but have friends in Staffordshire who say Mom . Seems to be really variable

SeaToSki · 15/01/2020 16:31

I live in the US, so people call me a Mom, but I refer to myself as a Mum. So not sure what side of the fence I end up on 😀

BlueEyedFloozy · 15/01/2020 16:32

I must admit I have a few (English born) friends who type write Mom but say Mum - is it actually distinguishable to others?

Crunchymum · 15/01/2020 16:34

MIL is Irish and she is a Mom

snappycamper · 15/01/2020 16:42

No just Birmingham. My DH is most vehemently NOT a Brummie (he's about 20 miles outside of Birmingham)

Basically a brummie

barberousbarbara · 15/01/2020 16:43

I'm from Staffordshire and I have a Mom

picklemepopcorn · 15/01/2020 16:47

Isn't 'mom' how you say 'mum' with a brummie accent, rather than actually 'mom'? So they'd say mom, but write mum?

Biancadelrioisback · 15/01/2020 16:52

It's more like "mi ma" in many parts of Newcastle, although my mam bollocked me when I said that once.

ClumzyOwlz · 15/01/2020 16:56

I mean, I say "Mum"
/Mummy, but I would say "Mom/Mommy" looks more 'correct' because it has the "Mo" from "Mother".