First post, please be kind. DP is a domestic builder. Been together 5 years (I was a client when we first met, maybe this is relevant...) I think he is too friendly with his clients. 90% of the time he deals with the lady of the house, most of whom are well off and well groomed women due to the areas he works in. Two years ago, I discovered him having an affair (the wife of a cousin of his ex wife). In a nutshell he begged for forgiveness, and we tried again. But I am increasingly p**d off by the amount of texting that goes on late into the evening with some of his female customers. Is it reasonable for them to be texting so regularly and until almost midnight? He’s their builder, not their best friend or agony aunt! And I found out that he’s been secretly doing free jobs for one of them, a much younger woman. He lied about where he was going when he went there (usually Sunday’s and evenings) and even about who she was (saying she was an existing clients daughter). He swears nothing is going on and thinks I am being unreasonable when I said I don’t want him working for her anymore. He said he works with these ladies in their homes and becomes friends with them, so he sees nothing wrong in them chatting by WhatsApp even after the jobs have finished. I’m 48 years old, so maybe I’m out of touch with how things are now....is it normal/reasonable to have call these friendly chats with your clients during evenings and weekends? And no, they’re not work related texts