Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to think LinkedIn is a pile of old shite?

41 replies

Namestranger · 14/01/2020 17:45

I spend a fair bit of time on LinkedIn for work and I've decided it's bollocks.

Here's why:

  • the endless, smug and almost certainly made-up stories of business influencers imparting frankly illogical amounts of largesse on imaginary lowly underlings then saying "agree?". Also abundance of said influencers who apparently used to live in a hole in a field and now run a Fortune 500 company #grateful #hardworkpaysoff
  • people who list their working day hour by hour, which always starts on an exercise bike at 5am
  • hilariously informal ill-judged cold approaches "Hi Changer! I just wanted to reach out to yourself ( Crown Envy )to offer you [service my company also supplies, only we do it at higher level]
  • MLMs
  • the IT managers who live 4000 miles away who send you unreciprocated "hi" "hi" "hi huni" "hi" over the course of seven months.
  • the constant insincere use of everyone by the word "exciting" - "I just had such an EXCITING day of meetings", "brainstorming with my colleagues is so EXCITING", "We've got some really EXCITING news coming soon"! No one's work is that exciting.

AIBAOG (am I being an old grump?) Grin

OP posts:
Bojheybuddy · 14/01/2020 17:50

You need to look up the State of LinkedIn on Twitter Grin

CMOTDibbler · 14/01/2020 17:51

Some things I agree with you on, but I find it a great source of info for what is going on in my industry, and I've really raised my profile using it carefully.

Recruiters who haven't paid any attention to what I actually do annoy me, as do people who want to connect just to ask about jobs at the company I work for which are all on our website.

managedmis · 14/01/2020 17:52

I keep getting requests from supposed US army orthopedic surgeons who unfortunately look like my dad (or nan)

PennyGold · 14/01/2020 17:52

I just can't look at it for the smugness, I actually cringe at the desperate content people post.
"Oh look at me helping someone, but let's make sure I get a photo of it to share with all of my linked in followers". Please do one.

managedmis · 14/01/2020 17:53

Via LinkedIn BTW

Not through the mail

Namestranger · 14/01/2020 17:57

I keep getting requests from supposed US army orthopedic surgeons who unfortunately look like my dad (or nan)

Perhaps they're trying to contact you about the secret branch of your family tree Grin

OP posts:
kalinkafoxtrot45 · 14/01/2020 17:58

It’s a horrid fest of smugness and virtue signalling. Need to be on it for work but it is so very grim.

ArsenicNLace · 14/01/2020 18:10

supposed US army orthopedic surgeons

I thought that was just me (although mine are cardiatric surgeons usually called Ricardo or something like that. I work in the medcal field so I accepted the first time. It then became clear he was probably a dating scammer branching out so blocked and reported.

I've had two further requests since with suspiciously similar profiles.

Yes I agree with all the smugness and 'inspirational' messages but I actually thing Twitter is worse (from a work point of view). All very self congratulatory and insincere.

Jaxhog · 14/01/2020 18:10

I've actually had useful, well-paid work from LinkedIn! It's like anything, you have to work it to benefit. Too many people think the benefits will just 'appear'.

I've never had an Osteopath contact me, although I have had a few business salespeople flogging relevant stuff. And I'm an open networker.

ThunderGarlic · 14/01/2020 18:37

Haha - I agree with all the points you make but still find it useful. It depends on your industry and your aims, I guess. It supports my work rather than producing a separate income stream by itself.

For me, it's a good interactive address book for colleagues and contacts and a good resource when someone needs an intro or advice on an organisation someone else has worked for.

I've used it occasionally for my own background research to figure out how certain organisations and companies are arranged, who works for whom, who has direct access to the top, and where the buck really stops for particular workstreams. (If you do too many searches like this, LinkedIn does assume you're a recruitment consultant and ask you to start paying to continue...)

I also like being able to message some old colleagues without giving out my personal email address or Facebook profile (which is strictly family, real friends, kids/cats only). These people for whom I have enough liking, interest and respect not to want to lose touch.

When someone publishes a book, starts up a company or organises an event, I like being able to recommend it to others in my network where I know they will appreciate the work and find it helpful.

Everyone gets a few dodgy randoms. I probably get more than most as I have a very common name and generic face. If I don't know them or their company / work, I just tend to ignore.

ObbyDo · 14/01/2020 18:38

I work in recruitment and use LinkedIn every single day. I haven't got a clue what you are talking about. Just don't read the bits where you read all that.

Bipbipbipbip · 14/01/2020 18:40

I hate it. I find it really cringey when you have to write about yourself and all your work pals (and actual pals!) can see it.

Joloh · 14/01/2020 18:54

I don't use it because if I do I just get spammed with recruiters assuring me I'd be a perfect fit for their role as an ASP.net developer in Cologne, or whatever.

(1)I don't live in Germany.
(2) I'm not an ASP.net dev.
(3)I've never hinted I might be.

OneKeyAtATime · 14/01/2020 19:02

Yes. Cringe worthy. That s why I dont have an account. Having said that some job applications can be as equally cringe worthy.

Namestranger · 14/01/2020 19:03

Just don't read the bits where you read all that

How will I know what they're about until I've read them - it's just all shite that pops up on my newsfeed, I don't go looking for it 😂

OP posts:
Namestranger · 14/01/2020 19:07

Whoever recommend "State of Linkedin" on Twitter THANK YOU! That's my commute home reading sorted! Grin God it is CRiNGE!

OP posts:
MairzyDoats · 14/01/2020 19:08

I'm on it but hate it - too much bragging, too much bollocks. Occasionally useful to find a contact but generally just irritates me and I tend to avoid.

Justanotherlurker · 14/01/2020 19:09

I'm lucky that in my career it is used as just a CV for recruiters to try and poach me, I don't have to post any stories or 'influencer' style posts.

I blame marketing those who do need a 'presence' on linkdin are almost always also on insta, those that have to write 'how great our company is' usually describe it as it being forced fun like most office do's.

They don't let me on, despite being female and working in IT, I am Senior dba/network admin and we are all generally just a bit too cynical.

AllergicToAMop · 14/01/2020 19:15

It changed. It is becoming bit of a facebook with personal posts. All the "omg positive vibes" drowns the serious and useful posts.

I feel bit left out now because no one is hitting on me there or spams me with "hi huni" even though my profile pic isn't half bad😂

I did get the wierdest message though from one recruiter. I checked and the person actually exists, posts a lot and it's a real profile. It was weird and cryptic and contained plans of a new electric car? Apparently I was chosen as an expert.
I worked in hospitality 😂

pandawandaa · 14/01/2020 19:16

Completely agree. I just can't bring itself to go on it. Unfortunately I'll be needing to find a better paid job this year and everyone keeps telling me I have to get on it to find work. Still haven't set it up though. Makes me cringe. I think it really works best for the early 20 year olds as an extension of their smug fb and twitter feeds.

Namestranger · 14/01/2020 19:26

I know this makes me a "bad worker" but it's the fucking KEENNESS that drives me nuts. Everyone is just so, so happy and positive and hardworking. Just once I'd like to have the balls to post "I'm having a shite day and all my clients are dickheads". Or "I do pretty much the bear minimum and everyone still for some reason thinks I'm good at my job because this place is managed really poorly". Or "I don't think I'd get bored if I didn't have a job, it's a lie to keep capitalism ticking over. I think Of have a blast".

Am on notice period now though and my workplace doesn't give references so perhaps the time is now Crown Grin

OP posts:
AllergicToAMop · 14/01/2020 19:29

Whoa😂 The state of LinkedIn on Twitter is awesome 😂

Justanotherlurker · 14/01/2020 19:30

I just can't bring itself to go on it. Unfortunately I'll be needing to find a better paid job this year and everyone keeps telling me

Depending on the area for work, it is better to be on it as it is basically just recruiter hunting ground you don't need to put any type of 'look at me' type posts, just work history and skills, get the collegues endorsing you for the skills you have put down and that's it.

The influencer style posting only really starterd after Insta took off

BringMeTea · 14/01/2020 19:46

Sorry to digress but Mario's 'Good used jeans' on State of LinkedIn has finished me off. As twere. 😂

KenzoBaby · 14/01/2020 20:03

Oh yes, I absolutely HATE LinkedIn although I have a profile there.

  • virtue signalling "look at this great charity I'm supporting"
  • self-promo "I'm having a GREAT day at the BoringAsFuck Conference"
  • brown-nosing "SUCH an interesting presentation by PersonIWantToSuckUpTo

But the worst is being targeted by MLM and recruitment agents. I don't know you, GO AWAY!