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To end this relationship? Haven't seen him in 2 weeks

58 replies

Penelope90 · 14/01/2020 08:24

My boyfriend and I have been together a little over a year now, we don’t live together but we’ve talked about it. We live 10 mins from each other though, 2 weeks ago I asked him if he wanted to go out but he said he was busy. Fair enough, I took a step back thinking he will plan something when he has time, didn’t hear from him for a week and then he texted him asking me how I was, a few texts back and forth. That stopped, and didn’t hear from him again. 2 weeks has gone by and I haven’t seen him.

AIBU to end this relationship? I feel like If you can go 2 weeks without seeing me given that we live 10 mins away, there’s no reason to be together?

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WhatsInAName19 · 14/01/2020 19:41

Just the OPs blanket statement seemed to be said as a rule she had for all her relationships.
If you use all the other information in OP's posts to provide context, it's pretty clear that she isn't proposing this as a blanket rule for every relationship. She is talking about her situation. I.e. a situation whereby a couple doesn't see each other for two weeks and there are no extenuating circumstances. I don't think many of us would find that acceptable.

kingkuta · 14/01/2020 19:41

So you last saw him 30 December? So you didn't even spend new year's eve together?

If he hasn't contacted you in 2 weeks iit sounds like he has already ended it, sorry

DrivingMsCrazy · 14/01/2020 23:42

Not mean Plan, just my opinion on your posts recently on lots of varying threads. Some of your replies have been very odd, it's not often a name sticks with me but yours has for that reason. As I say, my opinion, everyone has one.

x2boys · 15/01/2020 00:20

If I had ,nt heard from someone who I was supposed in a committed relationship with for a week Plan I would think he as ended it and just didn't have the balls to tell me ,I suppose it depends on the context of your relationship, if it's just a casual thing and you just meet up whenever,than maybe no contact for a week is fine ,if it's more serious than its suspicious.

PlanDeRaccordement · 15/01/2020 09:16

DrivingMrsCrazy,
Your statement was a mean personal attack.
As Thomas Dewar said,
Minds are like parachutes, they only function when open.

I suggest you be a bit more open to and tolerant of different opinions.

iklboo · 15/01/2020 13:40

@PlanDeRaccordement - yes, sorry. My post crossed your explanation in the ether it seems.

Bananatrain · 16/01/2020 02:23

Sorry to say but it sounds like he has ghosted you. It happens quite a lot unfortunately.

DrivingMsCrazy · 16/01/2020 23:39

@PlanDeRaccordement 😆😆😆 like you? Baahaha pot kettle love!

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