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Extra holiday - would you be honest?

104 replies

StillCoughingandLaughing · 11/01/2020 11:06

I probably will be honest because I’m superstitious about these things, but just interested in views Smile

The company I work for has switched to a new holiday booking system as of 1 January. I went to book a holiday yesterday and the system is showing I have my full annual allowance, plus five days carried over. I did indeed carry five days over, but I booked off the first two working days of January (using the old system). This hasn’t been tracked to the new system.

Should I be honest and retroactively book off those two days, or do I enjoy an extra two days off? Grin

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greenfieldsofrance · 11/01/2020 11:44

I would, and have told them. Not because I'm so virtuous but I'm a shit liar and if i did get asked about it it would be so clear i knew what I'd done. If i wasn't such a shit liar id happily keep the days.

OneDay10 · 11/01/2020 11:45

I wouldnt take it. The system will update as I'm sure you arent the only person who this would have happened to.
And then when it updates , you're only going to out yourself as very deceitful. Because how could you not knowHmm

itsgettingweird · 11/01/2020 11:46

I agree to leave it there and see if it gets carried over.
If you want to take them and can risk losing 2 days pay or holiday next year you can always say that you hadn't noticed and assumed that it had been carried over and taken into account you were off those 2! Days.

Ponoka7 · 11/01/2020 11:49

Would keeping quiet impact on a performance review, or get you thought of differently in work etc?

If not, then I'd keep quiet.

WorraLiberty · 11/01/2020 11:50

It could get discovered and your colleagues could lose all trust in you.

Nah that's a bit dramatic I think.

OP can just say she didn't notice or got confused.

Gottleogear · 11/01/2020 11:51

This happened to me and a few of my colleagues a few years ago after moving to a new A/L platform.
We did discuss saying something but didn't bother and we were never found out. But we were prepared to play dumb if we were rumbled.
We do work for a very large corporate company and did not feel guilty.

Ellmau · 11/01/2020 11:56

It will probably get adjusted.

StillCoughingandLaughing · 11/01/2020 11:58

And then when it updates , you're only going to out yourself as very deceitful. Because how could you not know Hmm

Very easily! Most people have to double-check their holiday every so often, and without the option to refer back to last year’s details, it would be very easy to get confused.

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tillytrotter1 · 11/01/2020 11:59

If they subsequently want the two days back what would be your reaction? You can't claim ignorance now!

Straycatstrut · 11/01/2020 12:02

Ah I wouldn't risk it. If you fess up looks good on you if you plan on staying there long term/promoted!

lovemenorca · 11/01/2020 12:02

I would wait to see what happens. Chances are it’s happened to others too. It will be picked up
And if it’s not - then I’d take them

There won’t be any come back against you if you do take them. You trust your company’s system - no punishment

Autumn2019 · 11/01/2020 12:06

I would be honest and book them off on new system. As systems have been changed recently there may be errors in the a/l entitlement showing now but when things are more streamlined somewhere down the line it may be discovered anyway. Also, if in future there are other errors not in your favour, it could all get very messy to sort out depending on the system. My previous workplace also changed booking systems and there were so many errors in the new system and they were such a pain to sort out even at the early stages let alone months later. Also, why have that on your conscience just for the sake of a few days annual leave

lovemenorca · 11/01/2020 12:06

@Spitsandspots

** I had a similar situation. I was honest.
I couldn’t have enjoyed an extra day off for the guilt of stealing a paid day away from work.
It could get discovered and your colleagues could lose all trust in you. Is it worth it?**

Do you think your company feels guilty if you’re in early and leave late?

flowery · 11/01/2020 12:06

”Enjoy the extra 2 days holiday, if anything comes back from it just play dumb”

How would playing dumb help the OP? She would end up not having enough holiday to cover something she wants to take time off for later in the year and either not being able to take the time off or having to take it unpaid.

OneDay10 · 11/01/2020 12:07

Very easily! Most people have to double-check their holiday every so often, and without the option to refer back to last year’s details, it would be very easy to get confused.

So you get X days a year and you take X+2. I would be concerned if something basic like that confuses you. Hmm

PleasantVille · 11/01/2020 12:07

Usually you don't keep track of your leave down to the day

Wow, your experience is. Very different to mine, where I work everyone knows their holiday situation almost to the hour.

I'd say something but I'm possibly too honest for my own good.

katewhinesalot · 11/01/2020 12:11

I'd play dumb. They get their pound of flesh enough.

OneDay10 · 11/01/2020 12:13

Play dumb and I would think you actually are. Seriously do you think someone wouldnt know how many days of leave you have a year?

Violetroselily · 11/01/2020 12:14

This has happened to me before - I told my manager and he let me take the extra day anyway

Honesty wins

Frazzled2207 · 11/01/2020 12:14

Keep quiet.

That said I had an issue with work where they paid me too much. I kept quiet for a bit but then fessed up. It was much appreciated. But the chances of them eventually finding out were much higher in that case.

leghairdontcare · 11/01/2020 12:17

What i'd do would depend on how my employer treated me in general.

StillCoughingandLaughing · 11/01/2020 12:19

I would be concerned if something basic like that confuses you. Hmm

Would you really? Or are you just being a patronising cow?

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Alsohuman · 11/01/2020 12:19

Keep quiet and see what happens.

This.

SoupDragon · 11/01/2020 12:20

without the option to refer back to last year’s details, it would be very easy to get confused.

Except it clearly shows you've taken none when you know you've taken 2 days. I'm struggling to see how you could claim you've not noticed.

SoupDragon · 11/01/2020 12:20

I mean, later in the year when you've taken a good few random days, yes, but 11 days in...?

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