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Are we totally mad - buying a house and having a baby

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HairsprayBabe · 08/01/2020 10:18

Will try to keep this short the more I think about it the more I feel overwhelmed...

We are currently renting - rental period ends August 4th, letting agents will only let us sign a year's lease after our current one ends.

Baby number 1 is due July 24th

We have the deposit to buy a house - we need to move into a house ideally as close to the end of our lettings period as possible.

Can we swing this or are we mad to even consider it - buying would cut our bills significantly and I would feel more secure owning a house with a baby than stuck in rentals...

AIBU to think we can find and buy a house and move in whilst heavily pregnant/with a newborn.

For info - both our families are local, hands on and helpful, baby will be first grandchild on both sides.

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Poetryinaction · 08/01/2020 18:32

The timing is tricky if you want very lityle crossover, because baby could come any time mid July to nud August. I would go for moving in the first half of July if finances can allow at all.
Either way, I think it's fine. Not ideal, but fine. You will either be moving very pregnant, or with a tiny baby. But I think before the birth is better.

rosieposies · 09/01/2020 12:50

Out baby was due on the 13th April and our completion date was the 10th. She came 2 weeks early so we moved house with a 6 day old.

I'm not going to lie it was pretty bloody stressful, we were lucky in that it was only a very small chain though and being a first time buyer will be massively in your favour.

I'd still do it all over again because at the end of the day we own our home and it's such a great feeling to be able to have your baby's room exactly how you want it without worrying about landlords!

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