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Who is BU here?

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MyNameHasBeenTaken · 31/12/2019 11:41

I will try not to ramble

Person A owns a snake
Person B usually holds and plays with the snake while person A cleans out the snake cage.
All good so far. Been fine for a couple of years.
Snakey is quite large, so has limited other places to be, apart from in his cage, in the bath (supervised as he can escape in a few seconds) or held by a person.
Person A has decided they want to move in to a friends mini-flat.
They did not discuss anything about this with person B
They walked out and left snakey.
Person B has been feeding and watering snakey. And holding him.
But person B cannot supervise snakey and clean his cage at the same time. Neither can person A, which is why they usually work together.
Person A has been ignoring all requests for advice and assistance
Person B has been feeding and watering but not cleaning snakey.
Who is U?
YABU - B should find a way to clean out snakey
YANBU - A should be offering advice or assistance with snakey

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YeOldeTrout · 31/12/2019 16:12

Gosh I find it obvious that OP is B! Yabu for not posting pic of snakey.

Soubriquet · 31/12/2019 16:21

Uh huh...corn snakes are piss easy to store whilst cleaning.

A normal box with a lid is fine.

I used to keep a Californian king snake and just had him in a normal box with a lid whilst cleaning.

Wasn’t even very big either.

Long as the snake can’t get the lid off it’s fine for small uses

LakieLady · 31/12/2019 16:27

Take Snakey to person A's new abode and slither him her them through the letterbox wink

That's so naughty! But very funny. Grin

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