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"I went for a walk to clear my head"

87 replies

StarShop · 26/12/2019 21:18

What does that mean? Not scenrio specific but when I walk I think:

My jeans are falling down don't wear these ones again to walk in

Oh a person, awkwardly avoid eye contact

Noome around, its quiet, I could get raped/mugged/murdered.

Ooh I really need to work on my fitness

So basically, I don't clear my head at all, would love to know if anyone can describe what the phrase means for them!

OP posts:
HomeAlone39 · 26/12/2019 21:33

Clear away the stuffy feeling of sitting indoors, watching tv, being on phone etc. Having a chance to think about stuff. Often my best ideas come to me when walking or I remember something I've been meaning to do for ages.

Letthemysterybe · 26/12/2019 21:35

If I used that expression it would mean that I had been feeling stressed/anxious and that a walk would help me stop going over the same stressful thoughts in my head. Because I tend to walk in the countryside so I would be thinking “ah I can feel the wind on my face, ah what a lovely view, Oo listen to the birds, hmmm deep breaths of lovely fresh air, isn’t this great” rather than “why did I say that to my boss/shit I didn’t meet that deadline/etc”

amusedbush · 26/12/2019 21:36

I hate ‘going for a walk’. I’ll happily walk to a destination and in the summer I really enjoy walking to work (just under 4 miles) but wandering aimlessly doesn’t interest me.

UndertheCedartree · 26/12/2019 21:39

It means being able to think straight.

eaglejulesk · 26/12/2019 21:39

I love a good walk! Sometimes I don't feel I can be bothered, but once I'm out there in the fresh air I feel much better. It's good to have time alone, to think things through - and if I see another person I usually smile or say hello. I never have the thoughts you do while walking OP.

RuffleCrow · 26/12/2019 21:40

I think it's weird that you don't know what that means. And it's weird that your trousers are constantly falling down and you always think you'll be attacked. Do you spend most of your life 'plugged in' op? Perhaps you've never learned to live in the moment?

HeddaGarbled · 26/12/2019 21:40

Charles Darwin had a ‘thinking path’ round his garden.

stripeypillowcase · 26/12/2019 21:41

and I love to cuddle every dog I come across (where the handler gives permission)

Keepmewarm · 26/12/2019 21:42

It’s the only time my anxiety goes away.

AutumnRose1 · 26/12/2019 21:46

Wow

In my case it means exactly what it says

And why are your trousers falling down?!

FreedomfromPE · 26/12/2019 21:50

Yes. A walk, particularly in open space or woodland is very calming or centering for me. At first my thoughts might be chasing around keeping me "busy" but focusing on the steps, the ground or spotting wildlife can break through that "noise". Then I usually find I can make sense of things. Perhaps take a mental "step back" and look at things in a more detached way. If I am very worried or cross I also focus on the steps and the act of walking and walk fast until the adrenalin starts to ebb.
I am always bemused by people thinking they will be attacked etc. I suffer from diagnosed anxiety but this sort of fear has never bothered me. I am aware of my surroundings, perhaps more so at night, but not in an uncomfortable way. Nor would I be deterred from a walk because it was dark. A rough area I might be more vigiant, but that's all.

FreedomfromPE · 26/12/2019 21:51

Where does that fear of just walking come from I wonder? As walking in the dark can be very peaceful.

speakout · 26/12/2019 21:54

Works wonders for me.

I live surrounded by woodland, and wil often take just ten or 15 minutes to walk though the woods. Even a short time eases any stress, refreshes my mood.

bd67th · 26/12/2019 21:55

Where does that fear of just walking come from I wonder?

Past experience of physical and sexual assault.

BlackAmericanoNoSugar · 26/12/2019 21:57

I like walking and it does clear my head. I like the rhythm of it, it's very soothing. I know that some people feel that way about running, but anytime I ever run I just think about how much I hate running and want to stop.

AutumnRose1 · 26/12/2019 21:57

I live in a rough area but have to live here, so....much more nervous of assault in enclosed spaces but of course, that’s another experience thing.

milliefiori · 26/12/2019 22:01

I do it all the time. To me it means: get out of the house, get soem fresh air and fall into the sort of hypnotic rhythm o fwlaking and just paying attention to the world around you in the moment, rather than being indoors with thoughts whirring around in your head (stress about elderly relatives, teens with exam and uni stresses etc.) I\ve just been for a night stroll with DS1. We didn't chat much, just looked at the pretty lit-up houses, listened to owls hooting, dogs barking. Definitely cleared my head.

catlady3 · 26/12/2019 22:01

It's a bit like mindfulness I suppose, trying to be in the moment, experiencing my body and enjoying the movement, focusing on breath. Does really blow out the cobwebs.

Blanketed · 26/12/2019 22:01

So that you can think about the situation you are in more clearly as you are away from it. Eg at your desk at work and need to think about it without any distractions. Or at home and need to consider options on more neutral ground.

adaline · 26/12/2019 22:01

I love it.

Getting a dog and being forced outdoors everyday has done wonders for my mental health. A lovely walk along the beach, through the woods or along the fields is so peaceful and calming.

AutumnRose1 · 26/12/2019 22:04

Millie that sounds wonderful!

Round here a late night walk is mostly listening to ...well, the sounds of a rough area and dodging the local dealers, but I’m on shifts so I kind of recognise them Confused

Jollitwiglet · 26/12/2019 22:05

When I go for a walk it's normally with my dog. But when we go for a walk I forget any worries and stresses in my life at that time. It's just me and my dog. I'm mostly focused on her, but still take in all the sights, smells and sounds. All the business in my head goes away, I always feel at peace when I'm just walking

BoomBoomsCousin · 26/12/2019 22:06

I want to clear my head when my mind won't stop thinking about something in a way that is negative and not helpful. I prefer something a little more arduous (a run or swim) to a walk. I can think just fine when I'm walking so more likely to dwell on whatever is bothering me. But sometimes it is enough to get out and walk somewhere I like and appreciate all the things I like about wherever that is to draw me out of whatever negative thought rut I've got stuck in.

Then, once I'm out of the rut I can look at the situation again a little more clearly and see it from someone else's perspective/consider other approaches/realize it's not important/etc.

highheelsandweathercocks · 26/12/2019 22:07

Going for a run clears my head. It gives me the opportunity to process things without distraction. I often go for a run if I have a decision to make or things are playing on my mind. I imagine a walk is similar.