My son started reception in September and I guess I had a rose-tinted idea that I'd get to know the parents in his year and it would be a friendly 'in it together' attitude at the school gates, where everyone would mingle and make new friends, but I was obviously a bit naiive. For starters, they all seem to know each other already. We don't live in a small village where there's only one school or anything, so I found this a bit surprising. And much as I try and make small talk to be friendly etc and get a conversation going, people are happy to exchange pleasantries, but don't seem particularly interested in chatting, and just go to the person they're already good friends with. I only moved to this town two years ago, and whilst I've made friends through work, I was hoping the school gates might be a chance to get to know people, but it's not what I expected. Admittedly, I don't drop off and collect every single day like some mums do as my partner and I share it.
I was also slightly annoyed today as a parent-organised event the whole class had been invited to was cancelled, and the only reason I found out was I overheard a mum telling someone, and that the cancellation had been announced on 'the Facebook group'. What FB group?! Certainly not one I or this other parent were a part of.
Has anyone else experienced this kind of thing? I know I shouldn't care but it's a bit crap.
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Oasis22 · 19/12/2019 22:05
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